Becoming a parent through adoption is an incredible journey, and for LGBTQ+ parents-to-be, finding the right adoption agency can and will make all the difference. This means you should not only feel supported, but seen and valued as well.

Here are five essential tips to help you identify an LGBTQ+ inclusive and affirming adoption agency:

1. Research the Agency’s Experience with LGBTQ+ Families
One of the first steps in identifying an affirming adoption agency is to look at their track record with single LGBTQ+ parents and same-sex adoptive parents. Check their website and social media for visible signs of inclusion, such as testimonials or success stories featuring gay dads, two moms, or other LGBTQ+ parents. If this information isn’t readily available, don’t hesitate to ask the agency directly about their experience.

2. Ask About Non-Discrimination Policies
A truly inclusive agency should have clear non-discrimination policies that explicitly include sexual orientation and gender identity. During your initial conversations with potential agencies, ask whether they have policies in place to ensure LGBTQ+ parents are treated equitably throughout the adoption process. These policies demonstrate the agency’s commitment to diversity and inclusion.

3. Check If They Understand LGBTQ+ Families (i.e. the Agency’s Cultural Competency)
Being inclusive isn’t just about having the right policies. It’s also about how the agency treats LGBTQ+ people. Look for an agency where the staff is trained to support and respect LGBTQ+ families. Ask if they’ve had training on working with LGBTQ+ parents and if they partner with groups that help LGBTQ+ singles and same-sex adoptive parents, i.e. HRC, GWK Academy or Family Equality.

4. Seek Recommendations from Other LGBTQ+ Parents and GWK Academy
Word of mouth is powerful. Reach out to other LGBTQ+ parents who have completed the adoption process and ask about their experiences with different agencies. Check out GWK Academy’s recommendations, and if you don’t find an agency or professional in your area, schedule a complimentary coaching session with GWK Academy’s head coach, Brian, to explore your options.

5. Trust Your Instincts
Your adoption journey is deeply personal, and it’s important to feel a sense of trust and comfort with the agency you choose. If you sense hesitation, lack of transparency, or dismissiveness when discussing your identity or concerns, it may be a sign to look elsewhere. Affirming agencies will treat you with respect and genuine enthusiasm for helping you grow your family.

At GWK Academy, we understand how vital it is for LGBTQ+ parents-to-be to feel supported and celebrated. That’s why we’ve curated resources to help you navigate the adoption process, including guidance on finding an affirming adoption agency. Our program connects you with trusted agencies that have a proven commitment to LGBTQ+ inclusion, ensuring your path to parenthood is as positive and affirming as possible.

Whether you’re just beginning to explore adoption or are ready to take the next step, GWK Academy is here to guide you every step of the way. With the right support and resources, your dream of becoming a parent can become a beautiful reality.