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# GWK Academy — Free Family-Building Support for LGBTQ+

A 501(c)(3) nonprofit offering free educational resources, coaching, and vetted referrals that help all LGBTQ+ people build families through adoption, foster care, surrogacy, and IVF.

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## Posts

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- [Before You Choose a Surrogacy Agency: 8 Questions LGBTQ+ Intended Parents Should Ask](https://gwkacademy.org/before-you-choose-a-surrogacy-agency-8-questions-lgbtq-intended-parents-should-ask/) - When intended parents first start speaking with surrogacy agencies, the conversation usually begins with two practical questions: what will this cost, and how long will it take to find a surrogate? Those questions are important, of course, but over the years I have come to believe that they tell you very little about what the
- [Open adoption can be complex, chaotic, & beautiful all at the same time. Just ask these two dads.](https://gwkacademy.org/open-adoption-can-be-complex-chaotic-beautiful-all-at-the-same-time-just-ask-these-two-dads/) - “The relationship has to be built around the people involved, and that means making room for both connection and boundaries.”
- [Gay Surrogacy Costs](https://gwkacademy.org/gay-surrogacy-costs/) - How much does gay surrogacy cost? A full breakdown of agency, clinic, egg-donor, surrogate, insurance & legal fees, plus ways to save.
- [A Twibling Journey for Two Dads](https://gwkacademy.org/a-twibling-journey-for-two-dads/) - What is a twibling? Two babies created from each dad's sperm and one egg donor, carried by two surrogates. One two-dad family shares their twibling journey.
- [How AI Is Changing IVF: What LGBTQ+ Intended Parents Should Know](https://gwkacademy.org/how-ai-is-changing-ivf-what-lgbtq-intended-parents-should-know/) - New technology can add important safeguards and support more consistent care, but experienced fertility professionals should remain at the center of every decision
- [From Our Journey to Theirs: Sharing LGBTQ+ Family-Building on TODAY](https://gwkacademy.org/from-our-journey-to-theirs-sharing-lgbtq-family-building-on-today/) - Sharing the TODAY stage with Aaron and Horacio was a powerful reminder of why GWK Academy exists: to help LGBTQ+ people navigate family-building with confidence, support, and hope.
- [The Family I Built Alone](https://gwkacademy.org/the-family-i-built-alone/) - This single gay dad reflects on the deeply personal journey that inspired him to write his memoir.
- [Florida, Surrogacy, and LGBTQ+ Families: Why the State You Choose Matters](https://gwkacademy.org/florida-surrogacy-and-lgbtq-families-why-the-state-you-choose-matters/) - In more than two decades of doing this work, I have rarely met intended parents who started their journey thinking about state law. They come in thinking about embryos, donors, timelines, the surrogate, the clinic, and the child they have been imagining for years. Next to all of that, the question of which state feels
- [Today is yours: An ode to every type of queer dad & dad-to-be](https://gwkacademy.org/today-is-yours-an-ode-to-every-type-of-queer-dad-dad-to-be/) - Happy Father’s (or Fathers’) Day to every dad, future dad, foster dad, stepdad, and chosen family member who makes this community what it is.
- [Intending, Chapter 20: P.S. Post Surrogacy](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-20-p-s-post-surrogacy/) - As with Sara, the post-birth transition with Jen was effortless. She and Dave joked that with four children of their own, it was a relief to deliver a baby they didn’t have to worry about. As soon as she stopped pumping, our texts dwindled from weekly to monthly to never, basically. These days, with both
- [Intending, Chapter 19: Oh Boy](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-19-oh-boy/) - It was an uneventful pregnancy in an eventful world…until October, when Jen started feeling itchy. She knew that was a bad sign and rushed to the hospital. Sure enough, she had cholestasis, a liver condition that stops bile acid from flowing properly. It’s fairly common—some stats say 1 in 140 women, others 1 in 1,000—and
- [Intending, Chapter 18: A Match Made In Covid](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-18-a-match-made-in-covid/) - In September 2019, when Leila was nine months old, we received a second match email and knew she was a winner. Based in San Francisco, Jen and her husband Dave seemed like wonderful parents to their four children. The mere fact that she’d had four children—four smooth vaginal deliveries—was a great sign. Let me rewrite
- [Intending, Chapter 14: Midwestern Hospital-ity](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-14-midwestern-hospital-ity/) - The next day, Sara came by our room every few hours with freshly pumped colostrum. The amounts were so small and the liquid so viscous that we used a mini syringe to squirt it into Leila’s mouth, like feeding a baby bird. “All done,” we once said to a nurse. She peered into the container—“Oh no you’re
- ["Too Many Daddies" RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars: Post Show Interview](https://gwkacademy.org/too-many-daddies-rupauls-drag-race-all-stars-post-show-interview/) - We sat down with 6 gay dads from RuPaul's Drag Race, and the conversation did not disappoint.
- [The Emotional Weight Nobody Warns You About: Mental Health and the LGBTQ+ Family-Building Journey](https://gwkacademy.org/mental-health-lgbtq-family-building/) - Let's talk about the emotional weight of LGBTQ+ family-building, as this is an important topic that is seldom discussed.
- [Building a Bigger Table – Fathering the Movement to LGBTQIA Family Building, Parenthood, & Beyond (Out Loud & Laughing Podcast)](https://gwkacademy.org/building-a-bigger-table-fathering-the-movement-to-lgbtqia-family-building-parenthood-beyond-out-loud-laughing-podcast/) - Listen to the Out Loud & Laughing podcast, where GWK Academy’s Executive Director & Head Coach, Brian Rosenberg, joins hosts Bryan and Jon Ruiz for a heartfelt and hilarious conversation about LGBTQ+ family building, fatherhood, and creating more inclusive paths to parenthood.
- [Mother's Day, On Our Terms](https://gwkacademy.org/mothers-day-on-our-terms/) - All the ways we “mom”—a joyful, inclusive reflection on caregiving, chosen family, and the real, complex paths that shape how we show up.
- [Surrogacy is a great way to build a family. But be prepared for challenges along the way.](https://gwkacademy.org/surrogacy-is-a-great-way-to-build-a-family-but-be-prepared-for-challenges-along-the-way/) - The more you understand what can go wrong in a surrogacy journey, the better equipped you are to navigate it with clarity and confidence.
- [Intending, Chapter 17: Second Journey: Don't Stop Believin'](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-17-second-journey-dont-stop-believin/) - We knew we’d been spoiled with our first journey. From finding an agency, clinic, donor, and carrier, to the medical screenings, contract negotiations, transfer, pregnancy, and birth, we never faced a bump in the road. (Apart from the desired bump.) Recognizing this, we initiated our second journey with a big buffer, taking nothing for granted.
- [Intending, Chapter 16: We Got Dis. And Get Dissed](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-16-we-got-dis-and-get-dissed/) - During our stint in L.A., we had a tiered system to determine the extent of physical contact with Leila, not unlike Australia’s koala experience. Entry-level ticketholders got a side-by-side pose. Premium visitors could touch her. VIPs got a proper hold. Who got to assign the tier, however, was not always clear. My original instinct was to
- [LGBTQ Surrogacy Journey: Michael and Ryan Reflect on Becoming Dads](https://gwkacademy.org/lgbtq-surrogacy-journey-to-fatherhood/) - When we first introduced you to Michael and Ryan in 2024, they were eagerly awaiting the arrival of their first child through surrogacy — what they called their “post-pandemic baby.” After years of preparation and partnering with Brownstone Surrogacy, they were full of hope and determination to build the family they dreamed of. Now, just
- [LGBTQ Surrogacy Story: How Dom and Jer Became Dads Times Two](https://gwkacademy.org/lgbtq-surrogacy-dadstimestwo/) - “We became dads through LGBTQ surrogacy with the help of an egg donor and two amazing surrogates. Yes, two! Rory and Liliana were born two weeks apart, and it’s been beautiful chaos ever since.” Dom and Jer, known online as @DadsTimesTwo, are married dads from Michigan raising two children under two—born just two weeks apart.
- [Adam and Pat’s Journey to Parenthood Through Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/journey-to-parenthood-through-gay-adoption/) - When Adam Frank and Pat Duffy met in graduate school, it was a pink shirt that sparked their story. “When I summoned the courage to walk over to him, the first thing I said to him was, ‘Hi. I have a pink shirt too,’” Adam remembers with a laugh. From that moment on, their connection
- [Intending, Chapter 6: The Doctor Will See Your Semen Now](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-6-the-doctor-will-see-your-semen-now/) - As one of the most sought-after IVF doctors in the world, Dr. Vicken Sahakian had the tricky task of making prospective clients feel special in the shortest amount of time. For us, choosing the right doctor was a big deal; it could make or break the journey. For him, it was just another Tuesday, and
- [Reflections on ASRM 2025: Building Community and Expanding LGBTQ+ Inclusion in Fertility Care](https://gwkacademy.org/reflections-on-asrm-2025-building-community-and-expanding-lgbtq-inclusion-in-fertility-care/) - At GWK Academy, we’re committed to helping LGBTQ+ people navigate every path to parenthood — from surrogacy and IVF to adoption and foster care — by connecting them with trusted professionals who share our values. That’s why attending this year’s American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) conference was such an inspiring experience.The expo hall was enormous, filled
- [Love Makes a Family: Nathan and John's Adoption Story](https://gwkacademy.org/love-makes-a-family-nathan-and-johns-adoption-story/) - In honor of National Adoption Month, we’re celebrating LGBTQ+ parents who’ve built their families through adoption — parents like Canadian couple Nathan and John.
- [Ghouls Just Wanna Have Fun: 11 Spooktacular LGBTQ+ Family Costumes 2025](https://gwkacademy.org/ghouls-just-wanna-have-fun-11-spooktacular-lgbtq-family-costumes-2025/) - It’s our favorite time of year again — when families from across the LGBTQ+ community share their incredible, creative, and downright fang-tastic Halloween costumes with us! From tiny trick-or-treaters to full-on family ensembles, we love seeing the imagination and joy that go into each look. Below are just a few of our favorite submissions from
- [Intending, Chapter 9: Womb Service](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-9-womb-service/) - If finding an egg donor works like Tinder, finding a carrier works like an arranged marriage. Donor: swipe, swipe, Skype, select. Carrier: put your best foot forward and trust a third party.The relative scarcity in surrogate supply, along with their extended involvement, changes the power dynamic. Unlike the open-book market for egg donors, Circle keeps its carriers
- [Intending, Chapter 10: Impregnating Sara](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-10-impregnating-sara/) - While Little Miss Straw 1 waited on ice, Dr. Sahakian sent Sara prenatal vitamins, estrogen hormones, and steroids to trick her body into thinking it was already pregnant. It was a hefty bundle with one month’s worth of needles and syringes—a care package that could have been a scare package, but Sara worked as a
- [Finding Family Through Open Adoption: Barry’s Journey to Fatherhood](https://gwkacademy.org/open-adoption/) - When Barry Levey’s father passed away in 2023, the loss stirred something within him, a reminder that life is fragile — and that waiting for the “perfect” time to pursue your dreams can mean missing them altogether. This realization became the push he needed to start the journey toward something he’d always known he wanted: parenthood.
- [Intending, Chapter 12: CIAU WAUSAU](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-12-ciau-wausau/) - We arrived in Wausau (population: 40,000) on December 26th, 2018. Sara’s OB-GYN, Dr. Stevens, was going to be away on our original due date, so we scheduled an induction the week before, on January 4th. Paolo and I got there extra early to assuage Sara’s fear that we’d miss the birth. Fabio had been clear that
- [Intending, Chapter 13: Delivery.PDF](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-13-delivery-pdf/) - With just a few days to go, Circle emailed us a document entitled 6–Delivery.pdf that inspired me to search for numbers one through five. I vaguely recalled opening them and scrolling past smiling babies alongside obvious advice like “maintain contact with your surrogate.” This time, though, with daddy hormones kicking in, I felt nostalgic and
- [Intending, Chapter 15: Pumping Milk and the Brakes](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-15-pumping-milk-and-the-brakes/) - Sara had boasted about her milk supply, and she didn’t disappoint. She was a prolific pumper, producing 60 to 90 ounces a day. To put that in perspective, Leila only drank 16 ounces per day at the start. The plastic pump bags had lines on them for the date and volume, which Sara recorded meticulously,
- [Adoption is a beautiful way to build a family. But it’s not one-size-fits-all](https://gwkacademy.org/adoption-is-a-beautiful-way-to-build-a-family-but-its-not-one-size-fits-all/) - One of the biggest misconceptions about adoption is that the many paths are variations of the same experience. They’re not.When LGBTQ+ people tell me they want to adopt, I always start with the same response: “Tell me what you mean by that.”Not to challenge them, but to make it clear that adoption isn’t one path. There
- [Domestic Infant Adoption LGBTQ: James & Jason’s Story](https://gwkacademy.org/domestic-infant-adoption-lgbtq-james-jason/) - “We knew, without a doubt, that we were meant to be fathers.” James and Jason Johns-McCall have been together for two decades and married since 2013. They met back in 2005 at BWI Airport, thanks to mutual friends, and now call Atlanta, Georgia, home. Their journey as dads officially began when they welcomed their daughter,
- [Surrogacy Twins Risks: What Gay Couples Should Know](https://gwkacademy.org/surrogacy-twins-risks-gay-couples/) - Let’s be real — for many hopeful LGBTQ+ parents pursuing IVF and surrogacy, the idea of having twins can sound like a dream. Two kids, only one intense journey, and then your family-building is complete. Who wouldn’t love that? When my husband and I were building our family more than 15 years ago, we went the
- [LGBTQ Foster Care: A Gay Couple’s Life-Changing Journey](https://gwkacademy.org/lgbtq-foster-care/) - Note to readers: Whenever I talk about GWK Academy, I emphasize that our first step is to help hopeful parents understand all their family-building options — including foster care and adoption. For this month’s post, I’ve invited dads Antwon and Nate to share their journey. Their story not only clears up common misconceptions about foster care;
- [Adoption vs. biological family building: What LGBTQ+ couples should consider](https://gwkacademy.org/adoption-vs-biological-family-building/) - Originally published on LGBTQ Nation Adoption vs. biological family building: What LGBTQ+ couples should consider For many LGBTQ+ people, starting to think about family-building can feel both exciting and overwhelming. There’s often a sense of real possibility paired with big questions about where to start, what’s realistic, and which information can be trusted.After years of
- [Intention, creativity & hope: LGBTQ+ family-building trends to watch in 2026](https://gwkacademy.org/6-lgbtq-family-building-trends-to-watch-in-2026/) - The landscape of fertility, surrogacy, adoption, and foster care is evolving rapidly, shaped by cultural shifts, policy changes, and the lived experiences of queer families across the country.
- [Unsung Heroes: 6 Queer Moms Who Revolutionized LGBTQ+ Family Building](https://gwkacademy.org/unsung-heroes-6-queer-moms-who-revolutionized-lgbtq-family-building/) - The landscape of fertility, surrogacy, adoption, and foster care is evolving rapidly, shaped by cultural shifts, policy changes, and the lived experiences of queer families across the country.
- [Cost of LGBTQ+ Family-Building: Surrogacy, IVF & Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/costs-of-lgbtq-family-building/) - Wondering how much it costs to build an LGBTQ+ family? Compare surrogacy & IVF, infant adoption, and foster care adoption in one clear blog post.
- [Why I Started GWK Academy: Supporting LGBTQ+ Family Building](https://gwkacademy.org/why-i-started-gwk-academy-supporting-lgbtq-family-building/) - Here's the backstory behind why we created GWK Academy to support LGBTQ family building.
- [Sam's Corner: Your Holidays, Your Way](https://gwkacademy.org/your-holidays-your-way-sams-corner/) - Our monthly tip for your parenting toolbox from our friend Sam Leeson of babyREADY. The holidays don’t have to be about the stress of juggling everyone eles’s expectations. They’re about creating traditions that feel good for your family, right inside your own four walls. The people who truly love you will respect your boundaries —
- [Fertility Pathways for LGBTQ+ Parents: Medical Options Explained](https://gwkacademy.org/fertility-pathways-for-lgbtq-parents-medical-options-explained/) - In this webinar recording, Dr. Daniel Skora of Fertility Specialists of Texas break down the main medical paths to parenthood, and what you can expect from each.
- [Intending, Chapter 11: Gays' Anatomy Scan](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-11-gays-anatomy-scan/) - We originally planned to visit Sara at the 6-month mark, but she dropped not-so-subtle hints that the 20-week anatomy scan was a special occasion. It’s typically when a couple learns the baby’s sex, and she had fond memories of that moment from her own two pregnancies. Having picked the sex of our child, we felt
- [On Fiestaware, Ashes, and Dancing Again](https://gwkacademy.org/on-fiestaware-ashes-and-dancing-again/) - I'm a child of the 1990s, and this essay was years in the making. I was born during the AIDS crisis and raised by gay parents, which means I have a unique and formative identity, and one that is rare in multiple ways.
- [Intending, Chapter 8: What to Expect When You Are Expecting](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-8-what-to-expect-when-you-are-expecting/) - With the legal box ticked, Rose began a one-week regimen to prepare for the retrieval, also known as the extraction, collection, and harvest, but those all sound more Handmaid’s Tale to me. In a woman’s normal menstrual cycle, only one egg matures. With IVF, to increase the odds of success, donors receive daily injections of
- [These gay dads built families during the AIDS crisis. Their stories are blueprints for endurance.](https://gwkacademy.org/these-gay-dads-built-families-during-the-aids-crisis-their-stories-are-blueprints-for-endurance/) - Amid the AIDS crisis and anti-LGBTQ backlash, two couples dared to imagine family when few thought it possible.
- [Why more LGBTQ+ parents are choosing midwives. Even in hospital births.](https://gwkacademy.org/why-more-lgbtq-parents-are-choosing-midwives-even-in-hospital-births/) - Message from Brian Rosenberg: As fall settles in and we turn toward the season of gathering and family, it’s the perfect time to spotlight the growing number of LGBTQ+ parents who are choosing midwives for their family-building journeys. To share the invaluable and diverse ways in which midwives serve our community, I turned to my fellow
- [14 Essential Questions to Ask Your Escrow Company](https://gwkacademy.org/14-essential-questions-to-ask-your-escrow-company/) - When it comes to surrogacy, the escrow company is the quiet backbone of your entire journey. They’re responsible for holding and distributing the funds that pay your surrogate, reimburse expenses, and keep things running smoothly. But here’s the truth: not every escrow provider operates with the transparency and safeguards you deserve. Some are tied to
- [Intending, Chapter 7: Donor? I Barely Know Her!](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-7-donor-i-barely-know-her/) - Semen analysis—check.Sperm samples—check.Paolo and I had it easy. Our jobs were nothing more than hand jobs. This is when things got more complicated. Our next order of business was to find an egg donor, as Circle only matches Intended Parents with a carrier after they’ve made embryos. This way, Circle doesn’t keep carriers waiting while IPs
- [Intending, Chapter 5: Step One](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-5-step-one/) - Before we could invite women to the party, Paolo and I had to confirm that our manly parts were up to snuff with a semen analysis. At the London Andrology Centre, we gave blood and urine samples before entering our respective “happy rooms,” as Circle called them, or “masturbation stations,” as I called them: small
- [Intending, Chapter 4: What? Where? How?](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-4-what-where-how/) - I should clarify that when I say surrogacy, I’m referring to gestational surrogacy, not the old-school turkey baster method of insemination. Modern IVF technology is so advanced that the egg donor is almost always different from the surrogate. The reasons are two-fold. First, there’s the risk of attachment. By using another woman’s egg, there’s a lower
- [Intending, Chapter 3: To Breed or Not to Breed](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-3-to-breed-or-not-to-breed/) - A friend recently asked me when Paolo and I knew we wanted kids, so I tried to remember any big talks we had. I tried and I failed, so I asked Paolo, “Did we ever sit down for a serious discussion around whether we’d have kids?”“Not that I remember.”“Me neither! Isn’t that crazy? In a
- [Intending, Chapter 2: Love at First Sit](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-2-love-at-first-sit/) - The room for orientation was way too small—only 30 chairs for 80 students—so even though I arrived on time the first day of my master’s, I had to tiptoe around a horde of classmates seated on the floor. When I spotted a vacant plot, I seized it by leaping into a cross-legged position like a yoga
- [Intending, Chapter 1: a Portrait of the Author as a Young Man](https://gwkacademy.org/intending-chapter-1-a-portrait-of-the-author-as-a-young-man/) - Thanks to my dad’s job as a TV writer, we received For Your Consideration screeners in the weeks leading up to the Emmys. Box sets of DVDs flooded the house, spilling across the kitchen counter. We knew we’d only watch a fraction of the shows, but it felt wrong to throw any of them away,
- [Introduction to Intending, a Surrogacy Journey Memoir in Serial](https://gwkacademy.org/introducing-intending-a-serialized-book/) - Introduction Editor’s note: We know the path to parenthood is filled with hope, resilience, and love. That’s why we’re honored to share Intending, a virtual memoir chronicling one couple’s surrogacy journey in their own words. Starting with today’s introduction, a new chapter will be released each week — an invitation to walk alongside them as
- [Gaddies: An Adoption Family Story and a Brand for Queer Dads](https://gwkacademy.org/gaddies-an-adoption-family-story-and-a-brand-for-queer-dads/) - David Morgenstern and Raphael (Raphi) Rosenblatt met in 2010 in New York City. Raphi was there for a summer graduate internship, and the two bonded instantly over a shared love of family, global travel, and Mean Girls. Just a month later, Raphi returned to Boston to finish school, and they began a long-distance relationship. Six
- [Mauricio and Erik: Finding Their Way to Fatherhood Through Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/mauricio-and-erik-finding-their-way-to-fatherhood-through-adoption/) - Mauricio Lozano and Erik Villagomez, both from Charlotte, North Carolina, recently welcomed their first child, a son, through private adoption. Their journey to parenthood was not a short one. It took two and a half years and included two failed matches before they finally brought their son home. Looking back, they both describe the experience
- [Doctor. Advocate. Dad. Dr. Daniel Skora’s Journey to Fatherhood](https://gwkacademy.org/doctor-advocate-dad-dr-daniel-skoras-journey-to-fatherhood/) - As a reproductive endocrinologist and Medical Director of LGBTQ+ and Third Party Services at Fertility Specialists of Texas (FST), Dr. Daniel Skora has helped hundreds of families grow. But in April 2023, he and his husband, Rey Cervantes, stepped into a new chapter of their own—becoming dads to twin boys via gestational surrogacy. What made
- [From California Beaches to Alpine Lakes: How the @fontesfourpack Found Adventure, Family, and Home Wherever They Roam](https://gwkacademy.org/from-california-beaches-to-alpine-lakes-how-the-fontesfourpack-found-adventure-family-and-home-wherever-they-roam/) - Eighteen years ago, Tyler and Andrew met through mutual friends — and a love story quickly blossomed. A few months later, they moved to California together, married on a beach six years after that, and not long after, started dreaming about fatherhood. Coming from big, close-knit families, they always knew kids would be part of
- [From Matching Shoes to Fatherhood and Global Adventures: Frank and BJ Celebrate 15 Years Together](https://gwkacademy.org/from-matching-shoes-to-fatherhood-and-global-adventures-frank-and-bj-celebrate-15-years-together/) - Fifteen years ago, Frank and BJ met by chance on a patio in Toronto’s Gay Village. They happened to be wearing the same shoes.“I see you have good taste in shoes!” Frank joked — and just like that, their love story began. They couldn’t have imagined then that they’d one day be married, raising a
- [How I Became a Single Dad at 49 - And Why I'd Do It Again](https://gwkacademy.org/how-i-became-a-single-dad-at-49-and-why-id-do-it-again/) - Guest post by Kevin ZobackEver since I was a little boy, I knew I wanted to be a dad of something. I wasn’t like most of the boys I grew up with. I didn’t care much for sports — I was more into puppet shows and action figures (G.I. Joe and Action Jackson — and
- [Conceive Fertility Center Joins GWK Academy's Network of Vetted Family-Building Partners](https://gwkacademy.org/conceive-fertility-center-joins-gwk-academys-network-of-vetted-family-building-partners/) - GWK Academy is proud to welcome Conceive Fertility Center (CFC) into our trusted network of vetted family-building partners. Based in the Dallas–Fort Worth area, CFC has become known for its warm, inclusive, and deeply personal approach to fertility care—thanks in large part to the leadership of founders Dr. Julian Escobar and Dr. Derek Haas, and
- [The Rose Daddies: Sharing Their Family’s Joy Through Storytelling](https://gwkacademy.org/the-rose-daddies-sharing-their-familys-joy-through-storytelling/) - Jeffrey Williamson and Corddarryl Rose, better known online as @TheRoseDaddies, are redefining what fatherhood looks like—one bedtime story at a time. Together since 2015 and married in 2022, the couple lives in Hillsborough, North Carolina, where they’re raising their 1-year-old daughter, Ava, whom they adopted after years of dreaming about becoming parents. “We have always
- [Meet Dr. Mo Satyshur: Clinical Psychologist, Queer Mom, and GWK Academy’s New Mental Health Family-Building Partner](https://gwkacademy.org/meet-dr-mo-satyshur-clinical-psychologist-queer-mom-and-gwk-academys-new-mental-health-family-building-partner/) - We’re proud to introduce you to Dr. Maureen (Mo) Satyshur (she/her), GWK Academy’s new clinical family-building partner supporting lesbians and queer women with their biological family-building journeys. Dr. Mo is a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in perinatal mental health, and she offers a rare blend of clinical expertise and lived experience—she’s not only a trusted
- [GWK Academy Review From a Future Dad](https://gwkacademy.org/gwk-academy-review-from-a-future-dad/) - GWK Academy member D.J. Stavropoulos is well on his way to fatherhood! After attending a few of our surrogacy webinars, he joined GWK Academy back in 2023. We are proud to share this video review that he sent for us to share about his experiences with GWK Academy, and hope you’ll give it a watch.
- [Joel, Yancy, and Ange — A Loving Journey Through Foster-Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/joel-yancy-and-ange-a-loving-journey-through-foster-adoption/) - “I always knew I was going to be a parent,” says Joel B. New. “It truly felt like a calling from a very young age.” As a young queer person, Joel remembers reassuring his mother when he came out: being gay didn’t mean giving up on the dream of family. That commitment to parenthood would
- [Celebrating Pride with LGBTQ+ Families Created Through Adoption at Spence-Chapin](https://gwkacademy.org/celebrating-pride-with-these-beautiful-lgbtq-families-created-through-adoption/) - At GWK Academy, we believe Pride is not only a celebration of identity—it’s a celebration of love and the many beautiful ways we build our families. In honor of Pride, we partnered with one of our incredible family-building partners, Spence-Chapin, to spotlight just a few of the extraordinary families created with their help through adoption.
- [Tammuz Family Joins GWK Academy’s Exclusive Network of Vetted Family-Building Partners for LGBTQ+ Parents](https://gwkacademy.org/tammuz-family-joins-gwk-academys-exclusive-network-of-vetted-family-building-partners-for-lgbtq-parents/) - We’re thrilled to welcome Tammuz Family as the newest member of our exclusive network of trusted and vetted GWK Academy family-building partners to support biological family-building for future LGBTQ+ parents. In the past 17+ years, they have helped thousands of LGBTQ+ people around the globe become parents through egg donation, IVF and surrogacy. Their North
- [Laughing Out Loud, Loving Out Loud — The Ruiz-Stango Family Story](https://gwkacademy.org/laughing-out-loud-loving-out-loud-the-ruiz-stango-family-story/) - For Bryan Ruiz, the dream of fatherhood started early—but for a long time, it felt just out of reach. “There was a pervasive sense that parenthood wasn’t a path open to someone like me,” Bryan says. “It felt like a fundamental life milestone that might be out of reach simply because of who I am.”
- [New Book Helps LGBTQ+ Parents-to-Be Eliminate Debt and Build Lasting Wealth](https://gwkacademy.org/new-book-helps-lgbtq-parents-to-be-eliminate-debt-and-build-lasting-wealth/) - A Must-Read for Future LGBTQ+ Parents Seeking Solid Financial Footing
- [A Sister’s Gift: How Family Made Fatherhood Possible for These Two Dads](https://gwkacademy.org/a-sisters-gift-how-family-made-fatherhood-possible-for-these-two-dads/) - As a same-sex couple, Sean and his husband knew that building their family wouldn’t be straightforward—but they were determined to explore every possible path to parenthood. At first, they weren’t sure what was right for them, so they looked into both adoption and IVF/surrogacy. It was a generous and unexpected offer from within their own
- [NYC Theater Teachers Take Center Stage as New Dads Through Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/nyc-theater-teachers-take-center-stage-as-new-dads-through-adoption/) - When Derek and Gaspare got married in 2019, they did it in a way that reflected who they are: on stage in a theater, with their loved ones as the audience. “The ceremony was in front of the curtain, and when it rose, the reception was on stage,” Derek recalls. “It was a night we
- [Opening Hearts and Homes: How LGBTQ+ Families Can Help Kids in Foster Care](https://gwkacademy.org/opening-hearts-and-homes-how-lgbtq-families-can-help-kids-in-foster-care/) - In this webinar, we speak with Bonnie Sharpe from Extraordinary Families — one of California’s leading foster agencies — about how the LGBTQ+ community can make a meaningful difference in the lives of kids in foster care.Bonnie is joined by experienced foster parents AB, Daryl, and Jamie as they share their personal experiences, insights, and
- [Storytime Just Got Even More Fabulous!](https://gwkacademy.org/storytime-just-got-even-more-fabulous/) - The second season of the LGBTQ+-hosted children’s variety show The Fabulous Show with Fay and Fluffy is streaming on YouTube now. We LGBTQ+ parents should be happy to learn that the hit Canadian preschool storytime variety show, The Fabulous Show with Fay and Fluffy, is back for season 2 and it is packed with more
- [This Single Dad’s Foster-Adopt Journey Took Less Than A Year](https://gwkacademy.org/this-single-dads-foster-adopt-journey-took-less-than-a-year/) - Daniel Soto-Lopez is a business owner in Providence, R.I., and a single gay dad to 10-year-old Miguel through foster-to-adopt. Daniel always knew he wanted to be a dad, so when his dating life was preventing him from pursuing his parenting journey, he decided to go it alone. At first, Daniel’s family and friends weren’t completely
- [Gaddies x GWK Partner for Father’s Day + Pride Campaign](https://gwkacademy.org/both-always-gaddies-x-gwk-fathers-day-pride-campaign/) - This Pride Month and Father’s Day season, Gaddies and GWK are coming together to celebrate, support, and uplift LGBTQ+ families.Because pride and parenting aren’t either/or—they’re both. Always. From today through Father’s Day (June 15), the Gaddies x GWK campaign shines a spotlight on queer dads—honoring the real love, real lives, and layered identities of dads
- [From Dance Floors to Dad Life: Hike Chahinian’s Journey to Parenthood and the Stage](https://gwkacademy.org/from-dance-floors-to-dad-life-hike-chahinians-journey-to-parenthood-and-the-stage/) - “Every worthwhile endeavor carries its hurdles — and parenthood is no exception,” says Hike Chahinian, a Los Angeles-based dad, career counselor, and now, solo performer. Hike and his husband Peter are preparing to celebrate 30 years together this year, and among their greatest accomplishments is becoming fathers to their teenage daughter through domestic adoption. Their
- [Supporting LGBTQ+ Families: Roots Surrogacy Joins GWK Academy](https://gwkacademy.org/supporting-lgbtq-families-roots-surrogacy-joins-gwk-academy/) - We’re thrilled to announce that Roots Surrogacy has joined GWK Academy's exclusive network of family-building partners! Their commitment to personalized, ethical, and inclusive care makes them a perfect fit for our mission to support LGBTQ+ parents-to-be. Founded in 2015 by Brooke Kimbrough and Cassie Wright, Roots Surrogacy was born from personal experiences with surrogacy and
- [New Support for Queer Family Builders: Meet GWK Academy Coach Marea Goodman](https://gwkacademy.org/new-support-for-queer-family-builders-meet-gwk-academy-coach-marea-goodman/) - At GWK Academy, we’re thrilled to welcome Marea Goodman (they/them) as our newest family-building coach, specializing in helping people with uteruses navigate their journey to parenthood. A midwife, author, parent, and passionate advocate for queer family creation, Marea brings a wealth of lived experience, professional expertise, and heart to their coaching work. Marea’s own family-building
- [Lisa and Jaimee Rizzo Launch “The Two Mom Edit” Podcast](https://gwkacademy.org/lisa-and-jaimee-rizzo-launch-the-two-mom-edit-podcast/) - If you’re part of a two-mom family—or on the path to becoming one—Lisa and Jaimee Rizzo want you to know: You’re not alone. These New Jersey-based wives and moms just launched The Two Mom Edit, a brand-new podcast created to uplift, support, and share the stories of LGBTQ+ families—especially those navigating the world of reciprocal
- [GWK Academy and The Queer Family Podcast Team-Up to Celebrate Queer Families Everywhere](https://gwkacademy.org/gwk-academy-and-the-queer-family-podcast-team-up-to-celebrate-queer-families-everywhere/) - Only a couple of weeks into our new mission of family-building for all LGBTQ+ people, we are thrilled to share exciting news—a collaboration with The Queer Family Podcast! When host and creator Jaimie Kelton connected with GWK Academy Executive Director Brian Rosenberg, it felt like a natural and long-overdue meeting between two passionate champions of
- [Why This First-Time Gay Dad Says He’s Never Been Happier](https://gwkacademy.org/this-new-dad-couldnt-be-happier/) - “I’m in awe and couldn’t be happier!”⁠⁠Jeffrey welcomed his son in November 2024 and shared the joyful news with a beautiful photo of his new family. Born two weeks early, his baby boy arrived healthy and strong.⁠⁠“Surrogacy is a daunting process, and it would have been so much harder, if not impossible, to do without
- [5 Tips to Identify an Inclusive and LGBTQ+ Affirming Adoption Agency](https://gwkacademy.org/5-tips-to-identify-an-inclusive-and-lgbtq-affirming-adoption-agency/) - Becoming a parent through adoption is an incredible journey, and for LGBTQ+ parents-to-be, finding the right adoption agency can and will make all the difference. This means you should not only feel supported, but seen and valued as well.Here are five essential tips to help you identify an LGBTQ+ inclusive and affirming adoption agency: 1.
- [GWK Academy’s Next Chapter: Becoming a Non-Profit to Serve the Entire LGBTQ+ Community](https://gwkacademy.org/gwk-academys-next-chapter-becoming-a-non-profit-to-serve-the-entire-lgbtq-community/) - Dear GWK Academy Community, I am thrilled to share exciting news: GWK Academy is transitioning to a non-profit organization!This evolution marks a significant milestone in our mission to support LGBTQ+ individuals in their journey to parenthood, and I want to take a moment to share why this change is so important and what it means
- [Soaking Up Their New Life as Twin Dads: Ron and Nate](https://gwkacademy.org/soaking-up-their-new-life-as-twin-dads-ron-and-nate/) - Becoming dads felt like a distant dream for Ron and Nate—until it wasn’t. Now, after years of planning and patience, this South Korean-American couple living in Oslo are officially fathers to twins! “We’ve been together for 13 years, married for 10. Fatherhood wasn’t always on our radar, mostly because we weren’t sure it would be
- [Elusive Mommyhood: Exploring Surrogacy and Assisted Reproduction with Author Ginanne Brownell](https://gwkacademy.org/elusive_mommyhood_exploring_surrogacy/) - Guest post by Ginanne Brownell.If it weren’t for my friends Ben and Offir, I may have never become a mother. When I was told I had unexplained infertility and that I would likely never be able to carry a baby to term, I reached out to the Tel Aviv-based gay couple, who were in the
- [GWK Academy: Now Supporting All LGBTQ+ Parents-to-Be](https://gwkacademy.org/an-introduction-to-gay-queer-family-building/) - Exploring Your Path to Parenthood: Biological, Adoption & Foster Care At GWK Academy, we believe every LGBTQ+ person deserves the opportunity to build a loving family. As we transition to a nonprofit, we remain deeply committed to providing the most comprehensive, affirming, and accessible resources for LGBTQ+ parents-to-be. For those considering parenthood, there are three
- [Food Scientist and T.V. Personality, Dr. Taylor Wallace, is Living His Favorite Role: Dad](https://gwkacademy.org/food-scientist-and-t-v-personality-dr-taylor-wallace-is-living-his-favorite-role-dad/) - Previously posted on GaysWithKids.com. You might know him from television; his colleagues know him as “doctor”; his son knows him as “dad.” Single dad Dr. Taylor Wallace (@drtaylorwallace) is a food scientist, professor, small business owner, and TV personality by day. While you may recognize him from his appearances on Dr. Oz, The Doctors, and the Food
- [Two Daves and a Baby: Get Inspired by Their Story](https://gwkacademy.org/two-daves-and-a-baby-get-inspired-by-their-story/) - First published on GaysWithKids.com David first connected with Dave through OKCupid, sending him a cheesy Filipino pick-up line that a friend shared with him. “I thought it was romantic,” laughed David, “but Dave thought I was a player and wasn’t having it.”Nevertheless, they continued talking and met for their first date in January 2013. During
- [The Birth of a Surrogacy Agency](https://gwkacademy.org/the-birth-of-a-surrogacy-agency/) - Previously published on GaysWithKids.com Jarret and Elliot are NYC-based dads to two young daughters through surrogacy and egg donation. Unlike our typical GWK stories, we’re not going to focus on how these two became dads, but instead look at what came afterwards: Brownstone Surrogacy, a boutique agency passionate about prioritizing a personal and ethical experience.
- [Adrain and Ron: From an Unexpected Movie Connection to Building a Loving Family Through Adoption From Foster Care](https://gwkacademy.org/adrain-and-ron-from-an-unexpected-movie-connection-to-building-a-loving-family-through-adoption-from-foster-care/) - Adrain and Ron’s love story began unexpectedly during a shared moment at the movies. Both had gone to see Dragon Ball Z: Broly on their own but ended up meeting, sparking a connection that would lead to a beautiful family life together. Now, five years into their relationship and nearly three years married, they’re not
- [From Setbacks to Joy: How Randall and Caldwell Became Dads Through Surrogacy ](https://gwkacademy.org/from-setbacks-to-joy-how-randall-and-caldwell-became-dads-through-surrogacy/) - Randall and Caldwell Buntin, residents of Norfolk, Virginia, became dads last year when they welcomed their son into the world in August. Randall works as the Head of Merchandise Financial Planning at Family Dollar, Inc., while Caldwell is completing his PhD in Oceanography at Old Dominion University. The couple has called Norfolk home for the
- [Steven and Hector’s Path to Parenthood Through Foster Care](https://gwkacademy.org/steven-and-hectors-path-to-parenthood-through-foster-care/) - For Steven Oliver and his husband Hector, becoming parents wasn’t just about growing their family; it was about providing love and stability for children who needed it most. The couple, who met online 12 years ago and married in 2018, live in Union County, New Jersey. Steven works as a vice principal and Hector as
- [Gay Dads Brian and Rob Share Their Adoption Journey](https://gwkacademy.org/gay-dads-brian-and-rob-share-their-adoption-journey/) - Meet new dads through adoption @briandouglasjames and @mcclimans. This couple live in NYC and started their adoption journey in 2020. Earlier this year they brought their son home, and are thriving as a family of three. In this chat, the husbands share openly about their journey, including how their first adoption fell through after caring for the baby for nearly
- [These Dads Say It’s Never Too Late To Start Having Kids](https://gwkacademy.org/these-dads-say-its-never-too-late-to-start-having-kids/) - As they sauntered into their 40s, husbands Mark Hoebich and Brendan Hug started thinking about what it might take to start a family of their own. Now they’re awaiting the birth of their second child, they want other gay men over the age of 40 to know; it’s not too late to start having kids.
- [Moral Adoption: Mike Shares his Adoption Story](https://gwkacademy.org/moral-adoption-mike-shares-his-adoption-story/) - “I think the teen years might get glossed over in some more traditional households. I’m cherishing every moment I can.” Mike is a single dad to two sons: his eldest is turning 20 this month, and his youngest is 16. They found each other through You Gotta Believe (YGB), a remarkable NY-based agency dedicated to
- [A Miscarriage Confirmed These Dads Partnered with the Right Surrogacy Agency](https://gwkacademy.org/a-miscarriage-confirmed-these-dads-partnered-with-the-right-surrogacy-agency/) - When Stephen Glover and Andrew Murray met over 20 years ago, becoming dads felt out of reach. Everything changed when they met a gay dad couple who showed them that fatherhood was possible. Today, the British expats live just outside Brisbane, Australia, raising their twins, born in September 2017, thanks to an amazing surrogate and
- [From Chance to Forever: Robert and Brett’s Journey to Fatherhood](https://gwkacademy.org/from-chance-to-forever-robert-and-bretts-journey-to-fatherhood/) - Robert Cooper and Brett Schriewer, a couple from Kansas City, Missouri, have been together for over 13 years. Robert, a kitchen and bath designer, and Brett, a middle school principal, never expected that their path to fatherhood would unfold the way it did. But in September last year, when a twist of fate presented them
- [5 Tips to Build A Strong Relationship With Your Surrogate](https://gwkacademy.org/5-tips-to-build-a-strong-relationship-with-your-surrogate/) - We had a brilliant chat with surrogate advocate and owner of Be Surrogacy, Shelly Marsh who gave 5 tips for Intended dads on how to build a strong relationship with their surrogate. As a four-time surrogate, Shelly offers an invaluable perspective, diving into the emotional and unique dynamics between surrogates and intended parents. She emphasizes
- [My Life-Changing Journey to Colombia: Embracing the Impact of Spence-Chapin’s Granny Program & Intercountry Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/my-life-changing-journey-to-colombia-embracing-the-impact-of-spence-chapins-granny-program-amp-intercountry-adoption/) - I recently returned from an unforgettable journey to Colombia with Spence-Chapin, an organization known for its dedication to family services and adoption. The trip was designed to observe their Granny Program in action, a program created to support children in Colombia’s child protection system. I was honored to be invited for this impact trip with
- [Fostering Love: Antwon and Nate’s Journey as Foster Dads](https://gwkacademy.org/fostering-love-antwon-and-nates-journey-as-foster-dads/) - Antwon and Nate’s journey as foster dads began in 2017, a decision that would profoundly shape their lives. Over the years, they have welcomed three different children into their home, each placement unique in its challenges and rewards. The first child was with them for three years, the second for 18 months, and their third, Ali, for two
- [NewGen Families is GWK Academy's Newest Family-Building Partner](https://gwkacademy.org/newgen-families-is-gwk-academys-newest-family-building-partner/) - We chatted with Damien Chambers, CEO of NewGen Families and GWK Academy family-building partner, on how he got into the business, his proudest achievements, and advice for single dads-to-be. Damien also spoke about the vital support his agency provides to both intended parents and surrogates throughout their surrogacy journeys. The NewGen team ensures communication is
- [An “Unexpected Fluke” Led This Utah Couple to Fatherhood Through Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/an-unexpected-fluke-led-this-utah-couple-to-fatherhood-through-adoption/) - For brand new Utah dads Ammon and Jeff, the decision to adopt was an easy one. “We asked ourselves, WHY do we want to be fathers?” Ammon shared, “The answer had nothing to do with passing along a bloodline lineage or continuing genealogy traits, it was about shifting from living our lives for us and our things,
- [Craig and James: A Lifelong Journey to Parenthood and Beyond](https://gwkacademy.org/craig-and-james-a-lifelong-journey-to-parenthood-and-beyond/) - Craig Hartzman and James John have been partners for nearly four decades. When they met in 1986 at a hotel restaurant in Hawaii, they quickly realized they shared a deep desire for fatherhood. That night, they talked about their dreams of becoming parents, a vision they would eventually bring to life in the mid-1990s when
- [Kevin and Doug are New Dads Through Open Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/kevin-and-doug-are-new-dads-through-open-adoption/) - Kevin and Doug’s story began at a mutual friend’s house party back in 2010 during Thanksgiving break from college. What started as a strong friendship quickly turned into something deeper, and after a few years, they realized they had fallen in love. The couple now live in central New Jersey, where they bought their home
- [Single Dad Through Foster-Adopt: Michael from New York](https://gwkacademy.org/single-dad-foster-adopt/) - Michael Darnell is “single and ready to mingle with the right energy.” He’s also a dad through foster-adopt. He shares that “…being a gay man didn’t take away from wanting to be a dad. Adoption provided me with a great avenue to parenthood.”Michael worked with You Gotta Believe, a foster-adopt agency he became aware of
- [Seven Well-Known Gay Dads Who Became Parents Through Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/seven-well-known-gay-dads-who-became-parents-through-adoption/) - Here are seven of our favorite gay celebrities and politicians who navigated the adoption journey to create their beautiful families.
- [The SEAM Escrow Fraud Scandal: Dads-to-Be Left Scrambling for Surrogacy Funds](https://gwkacademy.org/the-seam-escrow-fraud-scandal-dads-to-be-left-scrambling-for-surrogacy-funds/) - For hopeful parents pursuing a surrogacy journey , the recent SEAM escrow fraud scandal has sent shockwaves through the community. Partners Alex and Jonathan have been together for almost a decade. They initially met in Paris back in 2011, but didn’t get together as a couple until a few years later. Paris was followed by
- [From Down Under to Daddyhood: Aussie Couple’s U.S. Surrogacy Journey](https://gwkacademy.org/from-down-under-to-daddyhood-aussie-gay-couples-u-s-surrogacy-journey/) - The most important advice new dads Michael and Joseph offer future dads considering surrogacy: “Treat your surrogate like the goddess she is!”These Australian husbands recently welcomed their daughter, Tiana, through a surrogacy journey in the United States. Now they're sharing their story to inspire others and pass on the invaluable lessons they learned along the
- [Eight Famous Gay Celebrities Who Became Dads Through Surrogacy](https://gwkacademy.org/eight-famous-gay-actors-who-became-dads-through-surrogacy/) - Here are eight of our favorite gay dad celebrities who have navigated a surrogacy journey to create their beautiful families.
- [Simple Surrogacy Returns as GWK Academy Founding Family-Building Partner](https://gwkacademy.org/simple-surrogacy-gwk-academy/) - At GWK Academy, we are proud to announce Simple Surrogacy is returning for the third consecutive year as our Founding Family-Building Partner. To support the gay community with their surrogacy & IVF journeys to parenthood, GWK Academy works with an exclusive network of family-building partners that includes surrogacy agencies, egg donation agencies, IVF clinics, as
- [The Increasing Costs of Surrogacy for Gay Men - And How GWK Academy Can Help](https://gwkacademy.org/the-increasing-costs-of-surrogacy-for-gay-men-and-how-gwk-academy-can-help/) - As more gay men and queer individuals aspire to become biological fathers, the challenges they face have also intensified. The journey to parenthood through surrogacy and IVF alone can often exceed $200,000. Several factors have driven this increase over the past five years, including rising surrogate compensation, higher medical and legal fees, and the cost
- [Navigating Adoption for Gay and Queer Men in the United States](https://gwkacademy.org/navigating-adoption-for-gay-and-queer-men-in-the-united-states/) - A Common Gay Adoption Story Richard and Matthew* (names changed for privacy), a married gay couple from Texas, embarked on their adoption journey with high hopes. Despite having stable jobs and a loving home, they faced numerous rejections from adoption agencies that prioritized heterosexual couples. After three years of an anguished wait, they finally connected
- [Dads Johnny and Sebastian Talk About Their Challenging Surrogacy Journey](https://gwkacademy.org/dads-johnny-and-sebastian-talk-about-their-challenging-surrogacy-journey/) - Johnny and Sebastian are gay dads from NYC and they have two beautiful children through surrogacy. Their road to fatherhood was long and their first surrogacy journey was fraught with a surprising number of hurdles. Hear how the dads overcame these challenges with the help of their surrogacy agency, Simple Surrogacy, their surrogate and IVF
- [After Four Years of Fostering, Kevin is Finally a Forever Dad](https://gwkacademy.org/after-four-years-of-fostering-kevin-is-finally-a-forever-dad/) - Four years ago, we first connected with Kevin Gerdes. He was starting his foster journey with the goal of one day adopting. Since then, Kevin has cared for eight infants and one 10-year-old; he recently adopted his ninth foster infant after a year of caring for him. It’s been a 4-year-long journey with some incredible
- [Jason and Kyle Share Their Adoption Story](https://gwkacademy.org/jason-and-kyle-share-their-adoption-story/) - Guest post by Jason Gingras. Our adoption journey has been truly amazing. I met by husband by chance when I left all behind in Orlando, Florida, back in 2016 and moved to Charlotte to start a new life. I was struggling to balance my faith in the Catholic Church and my sexuality, but once I
- [Dads-to-be Expecting Their Post-Pandemic Baby Soon](https://gwkacademy.org/dads-to-be-expecting-their-post-pandemic-baby-soon/) - Very early in Michael and Ryan’s relationship, they knew they wanted to be dads. But they decided that for the next few years their careers would take precedence. Until everything changed in 2020. “When the pandemic hit, our perspective substantially changed,” said Michael. “We both work in healthcare and saw first-hand the toll the pandemic

## Pages

- [Welcome to the GWK Academy](https://gwkacademy.org/) - GWK Academy is a nonprofit offering free courses, coaching, and referrals for LGBTQ+ people building families through adoption, foster care, surrogacy & IVF.
- [Biological Family Building Partners](https://gwkacademy.org/family-building-partners/biological/) - Biological Family Building Partners Our Trusted Network of Partners—Organized for Your Journey We’ve curated and personally vetted a network of experts who combine deep expertise, unwavering support for LGBTQ+ family-building, and a shared commitment to making your journey as clear, safe, and joyful as possible.Below you’ll find partners organized into categories — a suggested ‘game
- [Media Center](https://gwkacademy.org/media-center/) - MEDIA CENTER Have a Media Inquiry? TV Apperances Featuring Brian Rosenberg, GWK Academy's Executive Director TODAY Show – Dad Shares Mission to Help LGBTQ+ Couples Start Families Podcasts Featuring Brian Rosenberg, GWK Academy's Executive Director FatherneticsbabyREADYHusbands 2 DadsOut Loud and Laughing: Empowering LGBTQ+ Families, Brian Rosenberg’s Journey with Gays With Kids and GWK AcademyThe Queer
- [The Big Apple Family Takeover](https://gwkacademy.org/the-big-apple-family-takeover/) - Join the Big Apple Family Takeover — a weekend of LGBTQ+ family fun across NYC, Oct 10–11, 2026. Every adult ticket supports GWK Academy.
- [Spring Break 2027](https://gwkacademy.org/spring-break/) - GWK Academy's 6th annual Spring Break: Miami + a Royal Caribbean cruise to the Bahamas, March 24–29, 2027. A family vacation for the LGBTQ+ community.
- [Pathways to Parenthood: Adoption - 2025](https://gwkacademy.org/lgbtq-adoption/) - A clear guide to LGBTQ adoption: your legal right to adopt in all 50 states, the four adoption paths, home study, costs, and how to find an affirming agency.
- [Gay Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/gay-adoption/) - Everything gay, bi & queer men need to know about adoption: legality in all 50 states, the process, home study, costs, and finding an LGBTQ-affirming agency.
- [GWK Academy Roadshow: Dallas](https://gwkacademy.org/gwk-academy-roadshow-dallas/) - Free LGBTQ+ Path to Parenthood Roadshow in Dallas | Sept 16, 2026, 6–9 PM. Explore adoption, foster care, surrogacy & IVF with GWK Academy. Register free.
- [Adoption - Course Directory 2025](https://gwkacademy.org/adoption-course-directory/) - Adoption Start Your Adoption Journey Welcome, future parents! No matter where you are on your adoption journey—just starting out or simply exploring your options—we're here to support you every step of the way. Adoption is a beautiful path to parenthood, and you have several ways to build your forever family.Not sure which path is right
- [How to Choose Between Adoption and Biological Family-Building](https://gwkacademy.org/understanding-family-building-options/) - Download our free guide to learn all your options for family-building Adoption & Donor Conception: Understanding Your Family-Building OptionsClear, unbiased guidance for LGBTQ+ people exploring parenthood Download Guide The best way to start your family-building journey is by learning about all your options — that’s exactly what this guide is here for.This guide will walk
- [Pathways to Parenthood: Surrogacy and IVF - 2025](https://gwkacademy.org/lgbtq-surrogacy-and-ivf/) - PATHWAYS TO PARENTHOOD: BIOLOGICAL LGBTQ Family-Building Through Donor Concieved Options LGBTQ+ singles and couples wishing to have a biological connection with their children can do so via surrogacy, IVF, IUI, reciprocal IVF, and/or sperm and egg donation. Each of these pathways can be an incredible journey, and inherent in each are exciting possibilities and important
- [Family Building for Lesbians](https://gwkacademy.org/family-building-for-lesbians/) - Family Building for Lesbians When it comes to family building for lesbians, queer women, and all people with uteruses, there are several meaningful paths to parenthood to consider. No single path is right for everyone — and no path is better than another. What matters most is that, whichever route you choose, the outcome is
- [Family Building for Gay Men](https://gwkacademy.org/family-building-for-gay-men/) - Family Building for Gay Men For gay men dreaming of becoming dads, there isn’t just one path to parenthood. Adoption, foster care, and surrogacy with IVF each offer a meaningful way to build a family.No path is right for everyone, and no path is better than another. What matters most is that you choose the
- [Coaching](https://gwkacademy.org/coaching/) - Meet GWK Academy's Coaches Brian Rosenberg (He/Him) Brian Rosenberg (he/him) founded GWK in 2014 and has been deeply immersed in the LGBTQ+ family-building space ever since. As a dad through both adoption and surrogacy, he brings firsthand experience and a wealth of knowledge to help guide others on their journey. Learn more about Brian here.If
- [Coaching Introduction](https://gwkacademy.org/coaching-introduction/) - Most coaching calls start with one of these five questions… Where do I even begin? Which path to parenthood is right for me? I’m overwhelmed. How do I make sense of all of this? My family-building journey has stalled. How do I get it moving again? Who can I trust to help me on this
- [A Guided Starting Point for LGBTQ+ Family Building](https://gwkacademy.org/lgbtq-family-building-journey/)
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## Lessons

- [8: Interpreting Your Egg and Embryo Data](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/interpreting-your-egg-and-embryo-data/) - Presented by Brian LoManto of Strategic Embryology and Consulting Presented by Brian LoManto of Strategic Embryology and Consulting
- [21. What's Next?](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/16-whats-next/) - Congrats for getting through all these lessons! Here's our suggested advice for your next step(s): Schedule a coaching call: If you have any questions or are feeling overwhelmed, schedule a coaching call with Brian. **These call are now complimentary!** Connect with one of our family-building partners: If you haven't yet connected with -- or finalized
- [20. Global Locations Where Surrogacy is Legal and Accessible for Gay Dads-to-Be](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/15-global-locations-where-surrogacy-is-legal-and-accessible-for-gay-dads-to-be/) - At GWK Academy, our primary expertise lies in U.S.-based surrogacy journeys but we recognize that there are other options available for our community around the world. Below is a high-level overview of some countries where surrogacy is relatively common and legal for future dads. Before considering any of these international options, we strongly recommend consulting
- [19. A United States Surrogacy Journey for Foreign Nationals](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/14-a-united-states-surrogacy-journey-for-foreign-nationals/) - If you live outside of the U.S. and are considering a U.S.-based surrogacy journey, schedule a complimentary call with Brian and he will be happy to talk through your options. The Case for Pursuing Surrogacy in the United States Kristen Hanson of Simple Surrogacy and Dr. Susanna Park of San Diego Fertility Center discuss the
- [18. Building Resilience Part 2: Managing A New Medical Diagnosis](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/15-building-resilience-part-2-managing-a-new-hiv-diagnosis/) - Managing A New Medical Diagnosis Receiving an unexpected medical diagnosis can feel earth-shattering, especially when you’re in the middle of creating your forever family. While it may change how you approach your path to parenthood, it does not mean your dream is out of reach. Acknowledging the situation and all the emotions that come with
- [17. Building Resilience: Preparing For Anything That Can Go Wrong](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/13-building-resiliency-preparing-for-anything-that-can-go-wrong/) - In this video, Dr. Mark Leondires of Illume Fertility and Family Therapist Joey Guzman-Kuffel discuss the medical and emotional challenges that gay and queer dads-to-be may encounter on their journey, and offer strategies for overcoming them. Medical Challenges Low sperm count: one or both sperm sources may not result in successful embryo creation Non-viable embryos:
- [16. Essential Questions to Ask Prospective Family-Building Partners](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/12-essential-questions-to-ask-prospective-family-building-partners/) - We provide these questions as a starting point for your introductory calls with IVF doctors, surrogacy & egg donation agencies, and escrow companies. Feel free to expand on them, especially for meetings with family-building partners that are not part of our exclusive network. In those instances, you’ll certainly want to understand their experience with, and
- [15. Navigating Your Surrogacy Journey Costs](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/9-navigating-your-surrogacy-costs/) - A surrogacy journey comes with many financial considerations, and trying to keep track of it all can be very complicated and overwhelming. So we enlisted the aid of our resident surrogacy financial and budgeting expert, Kristen Hanson of Simple Surrogacy, to create the series of videos below to help you understand all your costs, get
- [14. The Cost of Surrogacy](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/8-the-costs-of-surrogacy-ivf/) - Creating a family through surrogacy & IVF is very expensive. For a U.S.-based journey, most folks will spend between $150,000 and $240,000 for their third-party surrogacy journey (using an egg donor and gestational carrier), though it is not unusual to spend even more. We acknowledge this is a wide gap, but there are many factors
- [13. How to Build Your Surrogacy Team](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/10-building-your-surrogacy-team-part-1/) - Here's an overview of the various organizations and other professionals who will support your surrogacy & IVF journey. If this leaves you feeling a bit overwhelmed, or you'd like help identifying the best family-building partners for your journey, no worries -- schedule a coaching call with Brian for help. Who Should You Reach Out to
- [12. Legal Essentials for Gay Family Building](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/13-legal-essentials-for-gay-family-building/) - Protecting Your Legal Parentage Family law attorney and mom Meg Yorke breaks down why legal parentage is essential for families formed through assisted reproduction. Learn how parentage impacts your rights as a parent, what options exist to secure it, and why a court order is the gold standard for protecting your family—no matter where you
- [10. The Role of the Surrogacy Agency](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/5-the-role-of-the-surrogacy-agency/) - Think of your agency as a compass guiding intended parents through the intricate journey of surrogacy. While their job typically begins with matching you with your surrogate, it is not over until after your newborn is home safe and sound. You will work closely with them throughout your entire journey. We encourage all intended dads
- [7. Egg Donation: Everything You Need to Know](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/egg-donation-everything-you-need-to-know/) - Understanding the Basics & Finding an Egg Donor Presented by Linda Acevedo, Futura Egg Donation Choosing Your Donor: Key Considerations, Egg Sharing & Fresh vs. Frozen Eggs Presented by Lauren Makler, Cofertility Understanding Donor Identity Categories Presented by Joey Guzman-Kuffel, Counseling by Joey & Associates
- [11. The Evolving Landscape of Support Options](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/the-evolving-landscape-of-support-options/) - Presented by Shelly Marsh, Founder & CEO, Amplify Matching
- [11. Legal Considerations and Resources](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/trans-fertility-options/lessons/8-legal-considerations-coming-soon/) - Presented by Trystan Reese, GWK Academy's Trans Fertility Coach
- [5. An Overview of the IVF Process](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/4-understanding-ivf-the-process-how-it-works-and-your-clinics-role/) - In vitro fertilization (or IVF) refers to the process of creating embryos in a laboratory setting by fertilizing a donor’s eggs with sperm from one or more intended dad(s). Eventually, the healthiest embryo will betransferred to the gestational carrier (often referred to as the surrogate), who will carry the baby to term. The set of
- [2. Terminology you should know](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/trans-fertility-options/lessons/2-advanced-terminology-coming-soon/) - Presented by Trystan Reese, GWK Academy's Trans Family-Building Coach In this essential two-part lesson, Trystan Reese lays the groundwork for understanding fertility by breaking down the terminology, anatomy, and biological processes you’re most likely to encounter on your path to parenthood. Created specifically for trans and gender-diverse people, these videos offer a clear, plain-language reset
- [3. Finding your partners](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/trans-fertility-options/lessons/3-supportive-structures-coming-soon/) - Presented by Trystan Reese, GWK Academy's Trans Family-Building Coach In this lesson, Trystan Reese explores why the people around you matter so deeply as you begin or continue your fertility journey. From friends and chosen family to clinicians, clinic staff, and fertility specialists, the support team you build can directly affect not only your emotional
- [4. Mentally preparing for your journey](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/trans-fertility-options/lessons/4-mentally-prepraing/) - Presented by Trystan Reese, GWK Academy's Trans Family-Building Coach Building a biological family can be exciting and meaningful. For trans people, it can also bring added emotional challenges. This lesson is designed to help you care for your mental health as you move through this process. Hold Your Goal, Stay Flexible It is important to
- [5. Impact of testosterone-based HRT on fertility](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/trans-fertility-options/lessons/4-hormones-impact-on-fertility-coming-soon/) - Presented by Trystan Reese, GWK Academy's Trans Family-Building Coach
- [6. Impact of estrogen-based HRT on fertility](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/trans-fertility-options/lessons/5-fertility-preservation-coming-soon/) - Presented by Trystan Reese, GWK Academy's Trans Family-Building Coach This lesson explains how estrogen-based hormone therapy impacts sperm production for transgender women and nonbinary people assigned male at birth. It covers the rapid decline in fertility that can begin within weeks of starting hormones, as well as the uncertainty around long-term effects and whether fertility
- [7. Fertility Preservation](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/trans-fertility-options/lessons/7-fertility-preservation-coming-soon/) - Presented by Trystan Reese, GWK Academy's Trans Family-Building Coach In this lesson, Trystan Reese introduces fertility preservation for transgender individuals, including what it is, how the process works, and the costs involved. You’ll learn how hormone therapy can impact fertility, as well as important considerations for timing and personal decision-making. Most importantly, this lesson emphasizes that
- [8. Transgender pregnancy](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/trans-fertility-options/lessons/8-transgender-pregnancy-coming-soon/) - Presented by Trystan Reese, GWK Academy's Trans Family-Building Coach
- [1. Introduction and Overview](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/trans-fertility-options/lessons/1-introduction-to-trans-fertility/) - Presented by Trystan Reese, GWK Academy's Trans Family-Building Coach We’re thrilled to launch this course with an introductory video from Trystan Reese, a trans gestational parent, fertility educator, and the founder of Trans Fertility Co. This video offers a clear and affirming place for you to begin exploring your biological family-building options, as Trystan has
- [9. Transgender Lactation](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/trans-fertility-options/lessons/6-transgender-lactation-coming-soon/) - Presented by Tystan Reese, GWK Academy's Trans Family-Building Coach
- [10. Reciprocal IVF (Co-IVF)](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/trans-fertility-options/lessons/7-reciprocal-ivf-co-ivf-coming-soon/) - Presented by Trystan Reese, GWK Academy Trans Fertility Coach
- [8. Legal Essentials for Queer Family Building](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/biological-family-building-for-lesbians-and-queer-women/lessons/legal-essentials/) - When queer women pursue biological family-building, the medical steps often get the spotlight. But the legal steps are just as important. Parentage laws vary by state and were not designed with LGBTQ+ families in mind. Taking proactive legal steps — ideally before pregnancy — helps ensure your parental rights are secure from day one, especially
- [3. Advocating for Inclusive Family-Building Benefits at Work](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/agency-domestic-infant-adoption/lessons/4-advocating-for-inclusive-family-building-benefits-at-work-2-2-2/) - Advocating for Inclusive Family-Building Benefits at Work By Dr. Tom Bourdon, Board Certified Coach & Adoptive Gay Parent | Next Level Impact When my husband and I were preparing to adopt our first child, I was working as the LGBT Director at a university — someone who, professionally and personally, should’ve been deeply attuned to
- [4. Finding Your Family-Building Partners](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/agency-domestic-infant-adoption/lessons/finding-your-family-building-partners/) - You Deserve the Best Support One of the most important decisions in your adoption journey is choosing your family-building partners—the individuals and organizations that will help you become a parent. For those pursuing domestic infant adoption through an agency, these partners will typically include adoption agencies, attorneys, social workers, and family therapists. When researching family-building
- [9. All About Surrogates](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/7-all-about-surrogates/) - Surrogates, also known as gestational carriers, are incredibly special people whose motivation to undertake such a monumental task is almost always rooted in a deep desire to help those who cannot have children on their own. It is no surprise that many surrogates work in the public service sector in jobs that involve helping others,
- [4. The Intended Parent Psychoeducational Consultation](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/3-mentally-preparing-for-your-journey/) - Everyone who hopes to become a parent through surrogacy & IVF must speak with a mental health counselor for an “intended parent psycho-educational consultation.” Here Joey Guzman-Kuffel, one of our resident mental health experts, explains what this consultation is, and how it will help prepare you not only for your surrogacy journey, but even for
- [3. Advocating for Equitable Family-Building Benefits at Work](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/4-advocating-for-inclusive-family-building-benefits-at-work/) - Advocating for Equitable Family-Building Benefits at Work By Dr. Tom Bourdon, Board Certified Coach & Adoptive Gay Parent | Next Level Impact Before you begin your family-building journey, it’s important to understand what support your workplace actually offers. In this lesson, Tom Bourdon shares how he successfully advocated for equitable family-building and parental leave benefits
- [1. Introduction to Surrogacy](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/1-surrogacy-what-is-it-how-much-does-it-cost-and-how-long-does-it-take/) - In this quick video we answer the most pressing questions for those just getting started: What is surrogacy? How much will it cost? And, finally, how long will it take? Most people either move on to the next lesson or schedule a coaching call with Brian.
- [10. Important Considerations When Pursuing an Interracial Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/agency-domestic-infant-adoption/lessons/10-important-considerations-when-pursuing-an-interracial-adoption/)
- [1. Important Considerations When Pursuing an Interracial Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/interracial-adoption/lessons/1-important-considerations-when-pursuing-an-interracial-adoption/)
- [2. How to Submit a Strong HelpUsAdopt.org Grant Application](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/helpusadopt-org-adoption-grants/lessons/2-how-to-submit-a-strong-helpusadopt-org-grant-application/) - HelpUsAdopt.org founder Becky Fawcett shares practical guidance to help you complete your adoption grant application thoughtfully and present your story clearly.
- [1.  An introduction to Helpusadopt.org](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/helpusadopt-org-adoption-grants/lessons/1-an-introduction-to-helpusadopt-org/) - We’re excited to introduce you to HelpUsAdopt.org, one of the nation’s most impactful sources of financial support for hopeful adoptive families and a longtime champion of LGBTQ+ family building.
- [1. An Overview of Biological Family-Building for Lesbians & Queer Women](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/biological-family-building-for-lesbians-and-queer-women/lessons/an-overview-of-biological-family-building-for-women-all-people-with-uteruses/) - Presented by GWK Coach and founder of Pregnant Together, Marea Goodman (they/them) In this video, Marea will walk you through the primary options available for women / people with uteruses who are ready to grow their families biologically. Whether you're planning to do so solo, with a partner, or in a co-parenting arrangement, it's important
- [1. An Introduction to Adoption from Foster Care](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-from-foster-care-course/lessons/1-an-introduction-to-adoption-from-foster-care/) - In this introductory lesson, you’ll receive a high-level overview of adoption from foster care, guided by Rita Soronen of the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption, one of the nation’s leading voices in child welfare. This module provides essential context about why children enter foster care, the realities they often face, and why permanent, loving families
- [9. Grants that Support LGBTQ+ Foster to Adopt Journeys](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-from-foster-care-course/lessons/grants-that-support-lgbtq-foster-to-adopt-journeys/) - Adoption is a beautiful way to build a family, but the financial burden can be overwhelming. Fortunately, several grant programs exist to help LGBTQ+ singles and couples offset the costs of adoption. These grants, designed to assist those who cannot meet adoption expenses on their own, often have strict financial criteria. Applicants should expect to
- [8. Honoring Your Foster Child's First Family/Biological Family](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-from-foster-care-course/lessons/honoring-your-foster-childs-first-family-biological-family/) - Fostering a child is an act of love, stability, and commitment—one that also involves honoring and respecting the child’s biological family, their first family. For children in foster care, their biological parents remain an integral part of their identity, even when reunification is not possible. As caregivers, foster and adoptive parents play a vital role
- [7. Steps to Finalize Adopting from Foster Care](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-from-foster-care-course/lessons/steps-to-finalize-adopting-from-foster-care/) - One of the most important things to understand about foster care is that the first goal is always reunification with a child's biological family. Foster parents play a critical role in providing a safe, loving, and stable home while supporting that process. However, when reunification is not possible, the court may terminate parental rights, and
- [6. Understanding the Family Assessment Process (Home Study)](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-from-foster-care-course/lessons/understanding-the-family-assessment-process-home-study/) - The Family Assessment Process is a key step in becoming a foster parent, similar to a Home Study, but designed specifically to assess your ability to care for a child in foster care. While requirements may vary by state, the process typically includes: Training on the child welfare system Grief and loss education Trauma-informed parenting
- [5. Finding Your Family-Building Partners](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-from-foster-care-course/lessons/finding-your-family-building-partners-4/) - You Deserve the Best Support One of the most important decisions in your adoption journey is choosing your family-building partners—the individuals and organizations that will help you become a parent. For those pursuing adoption from foster care, you can either work with a private foster foster agency or a state or country child welfare program.
- [4. Advocating for Inclusive Family-Building Benefits at Work](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-from-foster-care-course/lessons/4-advocating-for-inclusive-family-building-benefits-at-work-2-2/) - Advocating for Inclusive Family-Building Benefits at Work By Dr. Tom Bourdon, Board Certified Coach & Adoptive Gay Parent | Next Level Impact When my husband and I were preparing to adopt our first child, I was working as the LGBT Director at a university — someone who, professionally and personally, should’ve been deeply attuned to
- [3. Mentally Preparing to Adopt From Foster Care](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-from-foster-care-course/lessons/mentally-preparing-to-adopt-from-foster-care/) - How do you prepare for the unknown, the unexpected, and the ever-changing? When you choose to foster or adopt from foster care, you’re stepping into a journey that requires patience, flexibility, and deep emotional awareness. In this video, Adriana Molina, Chief Program Officer at Allies for Every Child (a partner organization to Extraordinary Families)—and a
- [2. Terminology You Should Know](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-from-foster-care-course/lessons/terminology-you-should-know-4/) - Navigating the foster care system as an LGBTQ+ individual or couple can feel overwhelming, but it's also a path filled with hope, purpose, and the potential to change lives—both yours and a child’s. Understanding the terminology is an important first step on this journey, empowering you to feel confident and prepared as you open your
- [2. Adoption from Foster Care 101: Cost, Timelines, and Key Steps](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/adoption-from-foster-care-101-cost-timelines-and-key-steps/) - Choosing to adopt from foster care is a meaningful and life-changing decision, and at GWK Academy, we are here to guide you every step of the way. Foster care adoption, often referred to as "foster-adopt," is the process of providing a permanent home to children who have been legally released for adoption after efforts to
- [12. Transracial Adoptions (Coming Soon)](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/transracial-adoptioins-coming-soon/)
- [11. LGBTQ+ Parents Through Fostering and Foster-Adopt (Coming Soon)](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/lgbtq-parents-through-fostering-and-foster-adopt-coming-soon/)
- [7. All About the Sperm](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/biological-family-building-for-lesbians-and-queer-women/lessons/all-about-sperm/) - In this lesson, Danielle Winston of The Seed Scout breaks down the many ways people access sperm to build their families, moving beyond the idea that sperm banks are the only option. This module is designed to help you understand the full landscape of sperm sources so you can make thoughtful, informed decisions that align
- [5. Conception Option: Home Insemination](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/biological-family-building-for-lesbians-and-queer-women/lessons/at-home-insemination/) - In this lesson, Marea Goodman walks you through the fundamentals of at-home insemination, a less medicalized option for people who want to try conceiving outside of a clinic setting. This module explains what at-home insemination is, who it may be a good fit for, and how it works in practice, using clear, approachable guidance designed
- [4. Fertility Testing and Diagnostics](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/biological-family-building-for-lesbians-and-queer-women/lessons/fertility-testing-and-diagnostics/) - Fertility Testing and Diagnostics Before choosing a treatment plan, your provider will talk with you about your family-building goals — how many children you hope to have, who wants to carry, and who wants to be a biological parent. The following fertility tests will help you shape the best path forward. Ovarian Reserve Testing: Two common tests gauge
- [6. Additional Conception Options: IUI, IVF, Reciprocal IVF](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/biological-family-building-for-lesbians-and-queer-women/lessons/step-by-step-guide-ivf-iui-and-reciprocal-ivf-with-a-clinic/) - IUI, IVF & Reciprocal IVF: What to Expect In this lesson, we walk through the most common fertility treatment options for people with uteruses and ovaries — including those unique to LGBTQ+ families. IUI (Intrauterine Insemination)A gentle, minimally invasive procedure where sperm is placed directly into the uterus at the right time in your cycle.
- [9. Legal Literacy - Coming Soon](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/legal-literacy-coming-soon/)
- [11. Pregnancy and Beyond - Coming Soon](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/pregnancy-and-beyond-coming-soon/)
- [10. Insurance - Coming Soon](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/insurance-coming-soon/)
- [8. Financial Planning - Coming Soon](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/financial-planning-coming-soon/)
- [9. Navigating the Fertility Industry - Coming Soon](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/navigating-the-fertility-industry-coming-soon/)
- [8. Figuring Out Your Values and Preferences - Coming Soon](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/figuring-out-your-values-and-preferences-coming-soon/)
- [3. Advocating for Inclusive Workplace Benefits](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/biological-family-building-for-lesbians-and-queer-women/lessons/4-advocating-for-inclusive-family-building-benefits-at-work-2-2-2-2-2-2/) - Advocating for Inclusive Family-Building Benefits at Work By Dr. Tom Bourdon, Board Certified Coach & Adoptive Gay Parent | Next Level Impact When my husband and I were preparing to adopt our first child, I was working as the LGBT Director at a university — someone who, professionally and personally, should’ve been deeply attuned to
- [2. The Intended Parent Psychoeducational Consultation](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/biological-family-building-for-lesbians-and-queer-women/lessons/mentally-preparing-for-your-journey/) - In this video, Dr. Maureen (Mo) Satyshur (she/her), a queer parent and licensed psychologist, explains the important role of a mental health professional for your biological family-building journey—particularly when working with a fertility clinic or using a known donor or gestational carrier. This lesson offers a written version of that guidance for easy reference. Why
- [4. Mentally preparing for your journey (coming soon)](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/4-mentally-preparing-for-your-journey-coming-soon/)
- [GWK Academy's Vetted Family-Building Partners](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-family-building-partners/lessons/gwk-academys-vetted-family-building-partners/) - You are now ready to begin the process of selecting family-building partners; finding the best partners for your journey is such a critically important part of the process. While there are many, many options for you to consider, we strongly encourage you to meet with family-building partners from within our exclusive network. Remember, they have
- [6. LGBTQ+ Youth and Families — Why Representation Matters](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/fostering-older-youth/lessons/6-lgbtq-youth-and-families-why-representation-matters/) - This lesson highlights the unique needs of LGBTQ+ youth in foster care and the vital role affirming families play in their lives. LGBTQ+ youth are disproportionately represented in care—up to three times more than their peers—largely due to rejection rather than identity itself. Once in the system, many face additional discrimination, frequent placement moves, and
- [5. Preparing to Parent Older Youth](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/fostering-older-youth/lessons/5-preparing-to-parent-older-youth/) - Parenting older youth requires intentional preparation, because adoption is more than a legal process—it’s about building a lasting relationship. Most older youth in care have experienced significant trauma, which continues to shape how they respond to stress and relationships. Approaching behaviors through a trauma-informed lens allows parents to shift from asking “What’s wrong with you?”
- [4. What the Process Actually Looks Like](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/fostering-older-youth/lessons/4-what-the-process-actually-looks-like/) - This lesson outlines the process of adopting an older youth, breaking it down into key stages. While the journey can feel complex with paperwork, training, and waiting, each step is designed to prepare and support prospective parents. The process typically begins with an orientation or information session, where prospective parents can learn about the path,
- [3. Who Is This Path Right For?](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/fostering-older-youth/lessons/3-who-is-this-path-right-for/) - This lesson explores who might be a good fit for adopting older youth. There is no single profile of the “ideal” adoptive parent — people from all walks of life can step into this role. What matters most is mindset: emotional flexibility, a trauma-informed approach, and a willingness to show up consistently, even when it’s
- [2. Why Older Youth Adoption Matters](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/fostering-older-youth/lessons/2-why-older-youth-adoption-matters/) - This lesson emphasizes that every young person, regardless of age, deserves a permanent family. Each year, more than 20,000 youth age out of foster care without adoption, leaving them without the support most people take for granted — someone to call in times of need, to celebrate milestones, or to provide a sense of belonging.
- [1.  Welcome to Adopting Older Youth from Foster Care](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/fostering-older-youth/lessons/1-welcome-to-adopting-older-youth-from-foster-care/)
- [8. Emotional and Mental Health in Fertility Journeys - Coming Soon](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/emotional-and-mental-health-in-fertility-journeys-coming-soon/)
- [12. LGBTQ+ Parents Through Intercountry Adoption (Coming Soon)](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/international-adoption-course/lessons/lgbtq-parents-through-intercountry-adoption-coming-soon/) - Coming 2025
- [11. Final Word and Preparing for the Unknowns in International Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/international-adoption-course/lessons/final-word-and-preparing-for-the-unknowns-in-international-adoption/) - As you already know from reviewing the other chapters in this International Adoption course, this path is a profound journey filled with complexities, unpredictability, and challenges that adoptive parents must prepare for. Understanding the realities of intercountry adoption—and embracing the unknowns—will better equip you for the journey ahead. The Reality of International Adoption Intercountry adoption
- [10. Grants that Support LGBTQ+ Adoption Journeys](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/international-adoption-course/lessons/grants-that-support-lgbtq-adoption-journeys-3/) - Adoption is a beautiful way to build a family, but the financial burden can be overwhelming. Fortunately, several grant programs exist to help LGBTQ+ singles and couples offset the costs of adoption. These grants, designed to assist those who cannot meet adoption expenses on their own, often have strict financial criteria. Applicants should expect to
- [9. Maintaining a Connection to Your Child’s Culture and Origin Story](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/international-adoption-course/lessons/maintaining-a-connection-to-your-childs-culture-and-origin-story/) - Helping your internationally adopted child maintain a connection to their culture and origin is crucial for their well-being. Most international adoptions are transracial and transcultural, meaning that your family is now part of a broader cultural identity. Embracing and honoring this identity will help your child develop a strong sense of self and belonging. Your
- [8. Steps to Finalize Your International Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/international-adoption-course/lessons/steps-to-finalize-your-international-adoption/) - Each country has a clearly defined legal framework for finalizing an adoption. This process can be completed in your child’s country of birth or upon returning to the United States. Fortunately, in the inclusive countries where Spence-Chapin operates—South Africa and Colombia—adoptions are finalized in-country. This means that before you even board your flight home, your
- [7. The International Home Study Process](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/international-adoption-course/lessons/the-international-home-study-process/) - For many hopeful adoptive parents, the home study can feel overwhelming. However, rather than seeing it as a test, it helps to reframe it as a supportive and preparatory process. The home study is designed to equip you with the tools to navigate life as a conspicuous family, incorporate your child’s birth culture, and understand
- [6. Legal and Immigration Considerations for International LGBTQ+ Adoptions](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/international-adoption-course/lessons/legal-and-immigration-considerations-for-international-lgbtq-adoptions/) - Intercountry adoption is built on strong legal frameworks designed to ensure ethical adoption practices while securing full parental rights for adoptive parents. For LGBTQ+ individuals and couples, understanding these legal and immigration requirements is essential before beginning the journey. The Hague Convention and Ethical Adoption The United States is a signatory to the Hague Convention
- [5. Finding Your Family-Building Partners](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/international-adoption-course/lessons/finding-your-family-building-partners-3/) - You Deserve the Best Support One of the most important decisions in your adoption journey is choosing your family-building partners—the individuals and organizations that will help you become a parent. For those pursuing domestic infant adoption through an agency, these partners will typically include adoption agencies, attorneys, social workers, and family therapists. When researching family-building
- [4. Advocating for Inclusive Family-Building Benefits at Work](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/international-adoption-course/lessons/4-advocating-for-inclusive-family-building-benefits-at-work-2-2-2-2-2/) - Advocating for Inclusive Family-Building Benefits at Work By Dr. Tom Bourdon, Board Certified Coach & Adoptive Gay Parent | Next Level Impact When my husband and I were preparing to adopt our first child, I was working as the LGBT Director at a university — someone who, professionally and personally, should’ve been deeply attuned to
- [3. Mentally Preparing for Your International Adoption Journey](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/international-adoption-course/lessons/mentally-preparing-for-your-international-adoption-journey/) - International, or intercountry, adoption is a beautiful way to grow your family. For many children around the world awaiting families, it may be their last chance at finding permanency and stability. However, like any family-building path, international adoption comes with uncertainties, legal complexities, and emotional highs and lows. There is also the added layer of
- [2. Terminology You Should Know](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/international-adoption-course/lessons/terminology-you-should-know-3/) - For U.S. citizens considering international adoption, understanding the terminology used throughout the process is crucial. This guide provides key definitions to help navigate the complex legal, logistical, and emotional aspects of intercountry adoption. Adoption Agency: A licensed organization that facilitates the adoption process, providing services such as home studies, matching, and post-adoption support. Adoption Finalization:
- [1. International Adoption 101: Costs, Timelines, and Key Steps](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/international-adoption-course/lessons/international-adoption-101-costs-timelines-and-key-steps/) - At GWK Academy, we celebrate all paths to parenthood, including international adoption. Intercountry adoption, when pursued with integrity, can be a beautiful and ethical way to grow your family. What is International Adoption? Unlike domestic infant adoption, which is typically birth parent-led, intercountry adoption follows a different set of legal and procedural steps governed by
- [13. Transracial Adoption (Coming Soon)](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/independent-adoption-course/lessons/transracial-adoption-coming-soon-2/) - Coming 2025
- [12. LGBTQ+ Parents Through Independent Adoption (Coming Soon)](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/independent-adoption-course/lessons/lgbtq-parents-through-independent-adoption-coming-soon/) - Coming 2025
- [11. Creating a Parent Profile for Independent Adoption (Coming Soon)](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/independent-adoption-course/lessons/creating-a-parent-profile-for-independent-adoption-coming-soon/) - Coming 2025
- [10. Grants that Support LGBTQ+ Adoption Journeys](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/independent-adoption-course/lessons/grants-that-support-lgbtq-adoption-journeys-2/) - Adoption is a beautiful way to build a family, but the financial burden can be overwhelming. Fortunately, several grant programs exist to help LGBTQ+ singles and couples offset the costs of adoption. These grants, designed to assist those who cannot meet adoption expenses on their own, often have strict financial criteria. Applicants should expect to
- [9. Placement, Post-Placement, and Finalization](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/independent-adoption-course/lessons/placement-post-placement-and-finalization-2/) - Adopting a child is a life-changing journey, and understanding the steps from placement to finalization can help adoptive parents feel more prepared for the process ahead. While each state has its own specific laws and requirements, this chapter outlines the key stages involved in finalizing a domestic infant adoption with an adoption attorney. Step 1:
- [8. Open vs. Closed Adoptions](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/independent-adoption-course/lessons/open-vs-closed-adoptions-2/) - AdAdoption is a life-changing journey for all involved, including the adoptee, birth parents, and adoptive parents. One key consideration in the process is whether the adoption will be open or closed. Open adoption is widely recognized as the best option for the child whenever possible, as it prioritizes connection, identity, and transparency. Closed adoption, on
- [7. The Home Study Process](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/independent-adoption-course/lessons/the-home-study-process-2/) - The home study is one of the most important steps in the adoption process. In the case of a domestic newborn adoption, the home study is a required assessment to ensure that prospective adoptive parents are ready and able to provide a stable, loving, and safe environment for a newborn baby. While it may seem
- [6. Mentally Preparing for your Adoption Journey](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/independent-adoption-course/lessons/mentally-preparing-for-your-adoption-journey-2/) - This chapter is written by David Blacker, a psychotherapist and gay dad through adoption. As a father through adoption and a therapist specializing in family dynamics, I understand the significance of growing your family in this way. Adoption is a beautiful and rewarding journey that brings immense joy and fulfillment. However, it’s important to recognize
- [5. Finding Your Family-Building Partners](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/independent-adoption-course/lessons/finding-your-family-building-partners-2/) - Introduction: You Deserve the Best Support One of the most important decisions in your adoption journey is choosing your family-building partners—the individuals and organizations that will help you become a parent. For those pursuing an independent adoption, the first partner you need to find is your legal counsel, though you will also work with a
- [4. Legal Steps in Independent Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/independent-adoption-course/lessons/legal-steps-in-independent-adoption/) - Independent adoption is a deeply personal and empowering way to grow your family. Unlike agency adoptions, independent adoption allows hopeful parents to connect directly with birth parents while navigating the legal process with the help of an adoption attorney. Ensuring that every step is legal, ethical, and child-centered is crucial—especially for LGBTQ+ families who must
- [2. Terminology You Should Know](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/independent-adoption-course/lessons/terminology-you-should-know-2/) - By now, you’ve likely noticed that the world of adoption comes with a language of its own! We know it can be confusing, but trust us—mastering “adoption speak” early in your journey will be incredibly helpful. We’ve put together a list of key terms you’re likely to encounter throughout your adoption journey, along with their
- [1. Independent Adoption 101: Costs, Timelines, and Key Steps](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/independent-adoption-course/lessons/independent-adoption-101-costs-timelines-and-key-steps/) - Choosing independent adoption is a deeply personal decision that can be a great fit for prospective parents who want to take a more hands-on approach to their adoption journey. While independent adoption—also known as private adoption—can be more affordable than working with an agency, it also requires more direct involvement in finding a match and
- [3. Advocating for Inclusive Family-Building Benefits at Work](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/independent-adoption-course/lessons/4-advocating-for-inclusive-family-building-benefits-at-work-2-2-2-2/) - Advocating for Inclusive Family-Building Benefits at Work By Dr. Tom Bourdon, Board Certified Coach & Adoptive Gay Parent | Next Level Impact When my husband and I were preparing to adopt our first child, I was working as the LGBT Director at a university — someone who, professionally and personally, should’ve been deeply attuned to
- [12. LGBTQ+ Parents Through Agency Adoption (Coming Soon)](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/lgbtq-parents-through-agency-adoption-coming-soon/) - Coming soon
- [11. Transracial Adoption (Coming Soon)](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/transracial-adoption-coming-soon/) - Coming soon
- [10. Tips to Create Your Adoption Profile (Coming Soon)](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/tips-to-create-your-adoption-profile-coming-soon/) - Coming soon
- [9. Placement, Post-Placement, and Finalization](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/agency-domestic-infant-adoption/lessons/placement-post-placement-and-finalization/) - Adopting a child is a life-changing journey, and understanding the steps from placement to finalization can help adoptive parents feel more prepared for the process ahead. While each state has its own specific laws and requirements, this chapter outlines the key stages involved in finalizing a domestic infant adoption through an agency. Step 1: Initial
- [8. Grants that Support LGBTQ+ Adoption Journeys](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/agency-domestic-infant-adoption/lessons/grants-that-support-lgbtq-adoption-journeys/) - Adoption is a beautiful way to build a family, but the financial burden can be overwhelming. Fortunately, several grant programs exist to help LGBTQ+ singles and couples offset the costs of adoption. These grants, designed to assist those who cannot meet adoption expenses on their own, often have strict financial criteria. Applicants should expect to
- [7. Open vs. Closed Adoptions](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/agency-domestic-infant-adoption/lessons/open-vs-closed-adoptions/) - Adoption is a life-changing journey for all involved, including the adoptee, birth parents, and adoptive parents. One key consideration in the process is whether the adoption will be open or closed. Open adoption is widely recognized as the best option for the child whenever possible, as it prioritizes connection, identity, and transparency. Closed adoption, on
- [6. The Home Study Process](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/agency-domestic-infant-adoption/lessons/the-home-study-process/) - The home study is one of the most important steps in the adoption process. In the case of a domestic newborn adoption, the home study is a required assessment to ensure that prospective adoptive parents are ready and able to provide a stable, loving, and safe environment for a newborn baby. While it may seem
- [5. Mentally Preparing for your Adoption Journey](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/agency-domestic-infant-adoption/lessons/mentally-preparing-for-your-adoption-journey/) - This blog post is based on a video series originally created for GWK Academy by David Blacker, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who is also a gay dad through domestic agency adoption. As a father through adoption and a therapist specializing in family dynamics, I understand the significance of growing your family in this
- [2. Terminology you should know](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/agency-domestic-infant-adoption/lessons/terminology-you-should-know/) - By now, you’ve likely noticed that the world of adoption comes with a language of its own! We know it can be confusing, but trust us—mastering “adoption speak” early in your journey will be incredibly helpful. We’ve put together a list of key terms you’re likely to encounter throughout your adoption journey, along with their
- [1. Agency Domestic Infant Adoption 101: Cost, Timeline, and Key Steps](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/agency-domestic-infant-adoption/lessons/agency-domestic-infant-adoption-101-cost-timeline-and-key-steps/) - This video provides a comprehensive overview of agency domestic adoption, focusing on the cost, timeline, and key steps involved in the process. If you’re considering adoption and working with an agency, this guide will help you navigate what to expect, how to prepare, and how to move forward with confidence. Understanding Agency Domestic Adoption Private
- [16. What's Next?](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/15-whats-next/) - Congrats for getting through all these lessons! Here’s our suggested advice for your next step(s): Schedule a coaching call: If you have any questions or are feeling overwhelmed, schedule a coaching call with Brian. Connect with an adoption agency or professional: Here is a spreadsheet of agencies and adoption professionals across the United States Connect
- [15. What Can Go Wrong During an Adoption Journey](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/14-what-can-go-wrong-during-an-adoption-journey/) - Center Aligned Button Next Next Lesson
- [14. Finalizing Your Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/13-finalizing-your-adoption/) - The final step in adoption / foster- adopt — you're almost there The final step in the adoption process is also the most exciting — finalizing your adoption and bringing your child home! To do so, it will be important to prepare your home to welcome your child. This involves simple activities like making sure
- [13. Matching with a Birth Family](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/12-matching-with-a-birth-family/) - For domestic infant adoption, all about matching with a birth family In a private adoption, when a birth parent decides to place her baby with you for adoption, it's called being "matched." It is important to keep in mind that this should and will be a birth-parent driven process: it will be entirely the birth
- [12. The Home Study Process](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/11-the-home-study-process/) - An important & required part of every adoption / foster-adopt journey Preparing for your home study The home study is an important and required part of every adoption journey — whether you are pursuing domestic infant adoption, foster care, or international adoption. Either read on or watch the video above for a more detailed explanation
- [11. Connecting With Inclusive Family-Building Partners](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/10-connecting-with-inclusive-family-building-partners/) - Below is a small but growing list of GWK Academy’s most highly recommended and fully-vetted adoption and foster agencies, as well as the geographic regions in which their waiting families must reside. To the extent one or more of these agencies serves your home area, we strongly encourage you to contact them. Of course, you
- [10. Grants That Support All Families Through Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/9-grants-that-support-all-families-through-adoption/) - A list of adoption grant programs that are LGBTQ+ inclusive Here's a list of grant programs that are LGBTQ+ inclusive and award couples and singles pursuing adoption grants ranging from $500 to $20,000. Helpusadopt.org Grants: Up to $20K awarded to singles/couples pursuing domestic (agency or independent) or international adoption. Requirements: Must be a U.S. citizen
- [9. The Costs for Each Adoption Path](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/8-the-costs-for-each-adoption-path/) - Cost breakdown of adoption and foster-adopt journeys Adoption Costs Let's review the costs involved in the various paths to adoption, as this may help you determine which of the following adoption paths is best for your family: Agency Adoption, Independent Adoption, International Adoption, and Foster-to-Adopt. *Please note that most adoption journeys (apart from foster-adopt) will
- [8. Adoption Path Timelines](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/7-adoption-path-timelines/) - How long each step takes during an adoption / foster-adopt journey Every adoption is unique — and as a result, the timeline of each journey can vary widely. On average, a domestic infant adoption process takes around 24 months, start to finish, but many adoptions may take much longer than this before they are finalized.
- [7. Everything You Need to Know About Open Adoptions](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/6-everything-you-need-to-know-about-open-adoptions/) - In the past, most adoptions in the U.S. were “closed,” or “anonymous,” meaning little to no contact existed between birth and adoptive parents. Today, that is no longer the case — there is typically some degree of contact between birth and adoptive families, thanks in part to ongoing research that has found benefits for all
- [6. An Introduction to the Different Adoption Paths](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/5-an-introduction-to-the-different-adoption-paths/) - An overview of the different ways gay men can adopt a child Different Adoption Paths The most important decision to make right now is selecting the type of adoption journey that is best for your family: domestic infant adoption, foster-adopt, or intercountry adoption. Domestic Infant Adoption There are two ways to adopt a newborn in
- [5. Adoption Overview Video](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/4-adoption-overview-video/) - The video breaks down the adoption process for gay men Getting started with your adoption or foster-adopt journey is incredibly exciting! But we know first-hand how complicated and overwhelming the entire process can seem. This video covers all you need to know about domestic infant adoption, international adoption, and foster-to-adopt. Center Aligned Button Next Next
- [4. Advocating for Inclusive Family-Building Benefits at Work](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/4-advocating-for-inclusive-family-building-benefits-at-work-2/) - Advocating for Inclusive Family-Building Benefits at Work By Dr. Tom Bourdon, Board Certified Coach & Adoptive Gay Parent | Next Level Impact When my husband and I were preparing to adopt our first child, I was working as the LGBT Director at a university — someone who, professionally and personally, should’ve been deeply attuned to
- [6. IVF Genetic Testing & Screening](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/5-ivf-genetic-testing-screening/) - Genetic testing is a crucial part of the surrogacy journey to ensure the health and well-being of your child. In this video, Dr. Allison Bloom of Main Line Fertility explains the various tests and screenings done for you (the intended parent), your egg donor, and your embryo.
- [8. Newborn Insurance for International IPs](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/8-newborn-insurance-for-international-ips-2/) - Watch this video on newborn insurance for international IPs
- [9. About ART Risk Solutions](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/9-about-art-risk-solutions/) - Meet our resident insurance expert, Virginia Hart, Founder & CEO of ART Risk Solutions
- [1. Surrogacy Cost Comparison Budgeting Spreadsheet](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/1-surrogacy-cost-comparison-budgeting-spreadsheet/) - We are grateful to have Kristen Hanson of Simple Surrogacy provide a spreadsheet to help you compare the costs of different surrogacy agencies and of different IVF clinics. Once you finalize your family-building partners, you can then use this spreadsheet to keep track of your actual expenses. We encourage you to watch the video below
- [2. Egg Donor Complications Insurance](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/2-egg-donor-complications-insurance-2/) - Watch this video on egg donor complications insurance
- [3. Surrogate IVF Complications Insurance](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/3-surrogate-ivf-complications-insurance-2/) - Watch this video about surrogate IVF complications insurance
- [4. Surrogate Life Insurance](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/4-surrogate-life-insurance-2/) - Watch this video on surrogate life insurance
- [5. Surrogate Disability Insurance](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/5-surrogate-disability-insurance-2/) - Watch this video on surrogate disability insurance
- [6. Surrogacy Maternity Insurance](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/6-surrogacy-maternity-insurance-2/) - Watch this video on surrogacy maternity insurance
- [7. Newborn Insurance for Domestic IPs](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/7-newborn-insurance-for-domestic-ips-2/) - Watch this video on newborn insurance for domestic IPs
- [1. Introduction to our Surrogacy & IVF Insurance Guide](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/1-introduction-to-our-surrogacy-egg-donation-insurance-guide/) - GWK Academy’s Surrogacy & IVF Insurance Guide is a series of videos we encourage you to watch to learn about the various insurance options and packages available to guide and support you, your egg donor, your surrogate, and your newborn baby. We created this guide with ART Risk Solutions a recognized leader of all things related
- [Can I Use A Family Member or Friend As An Egg Donor?](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/can-i-use-a-family-member-or-friend-as-a-surrogate/)
- [Can I Use A Family Member or Friend As A Gestational Carrier?](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/can-i-use-a-family-member-or-friend-as-a-gestational-carrier/)
- [Am I Too Old For Surrogacy?](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/am-i-too-old-for-surrogacy/)
- [Is IVF Safe?](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/is-ivf-safe/)
- [What Is The Difference Between Fresh and Frozen Eggs?](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/what-is-the-difference-between-fresh-and-frozen-eggs/)
- [What Is A Reproductive Attorney?](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/what-is-a-reproductive-attorney/)
- [Can I Do Surrogacy If I Am HIV Positive?](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/can-i-do-surrogacy-if-i-am-hiv-positive/)
- [What Is Pre-Implantation Genetic Testing (PGT)?](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/what-is-pre-implantation-genetic-testing-pgt/)
- [Can Single Men Do Surrogacy?](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/can-single-men-do-surrogacy/)
- [Can I Have Twins Through Surrogacy?](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/can-i-have-twins-through-surrogacy/) - Dr. Allison Bloom of Main Line Fertility explains the various medical and financial implications of a twin journey through surrogacy.
- [Who Should Be The Biological Source For Your Child?](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/who-should-be-the-biological-source-for-your-child/) - During an Instagram Live, Dr. Susanna Park of San Diego Fertility Center had the opportunity to address a common question for couples pursuing a singleton surrogacy journey, and that is how to decide which of you will be the biological parent of your baby.
- [Financial](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/financial/) - Sunfish Financial Solutions for all journeys to parenthood.Special Offer for GWK Academy Enrollees: Complementary financial advocate call for 30 min, worth $250. Mention GWK when booking so we know to extend the call for you. Our team (yes, real humans!) will help you financially plan for your parenthood journey. Schedule ConsultContact Sunfish
- [Legal](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/legal/) - Fertility Law Group at Warshaw Burstein The Fertility Law Group is led by co-chairs Alexis Cirel and Eric Wrubel, pioneers in LGBTQ family-building with a national network of connections to support all dads-to-be regardless of where they live. Schedule ConsultContact Fertility Law Group at Warshaw Burstein
- [Insurance](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/insurance/) - International Fertility Insurance Providing insurance and financial solutions for surrogacy and egg donation journeys. Our team provides the solutions you need with unparalleled service. Special Offer for GWK Academy Enrollees: Coming Soon Schedule ConsultContact International Fertility Insurance Close this window
- [Surrogacy Agencies](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/surrogacy-agencies-2/) - Simple Surrogacy We are a full-service boutique Agency offering personal attention, competitive prices, unlimited re-matching, and 20+ years of Surrogacy Experience.Special Offer for GWK Academy Enrollees: $1,000 discount off surrogacy fees. Schedule ConsultContact Simple Surrogacy Surrogate Alternatives, Inc. (SAI) Since 1998, our organization, founded by a two-time proven surrogate and four-time proven egg donor, has
- [Egg Donation](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/egg-donation/) - Cofertility Cofertility is a matching platform for individuals and couples looking to grow their families through egg donation. Instead of cash compensation, all Cofertility donors keep half of the eggs retrieved in their cycle while donating half to intended parents.Special Offer for GWK Academy Enrollees: 10% off our Cofertility Coordinate Fee Schedule ConsultContact Cofertility Everie
- [Mental Health](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/mental-health/) - Counseling With Joey Counseling with Joey offers support sessions and coaching for those individuals who need help navigating the challenges and complexities of the surrogacy process. Special Offer for GWK Academy Enrollees: Coming Soon Schedule ConsultContact Counseling With Joey Close this window
- [Independent Surrogacy](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/independent-surrogacy/) - Modern Parent Mentor With over 30+ years of combined experience in surrogacy, egg donation and assisted reproduction, the experts at Modern Parent Mentor provide solutions for your successful independent surrogacy journey.Special Offer for GWK Academy Enrollees: 10% off any mentor-guided journey package. Schedule ConsultContact Modern Parent Mentor
- [IVF Clinics](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/ivf-clinics-2/)
- [2. Terminology You Should Know](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/lessons/2-terminology-you-should-know-2/) - By now you may have noticed that the world of surrogacy & IVF seems to come with a language all its own. The sooner you master “surrogacy speak,” the better off you’ll be. So we encourage you to start making your way through the 3 groupings of terms below. Foundational Terms Altruistic vs Compensated Surrogacy
- [Schedule a Coaching Call](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/schedule-a-coaching-call-3/) - Fatherhood is complicated, don't go it alone! Here are some of the common topics we can discuss during your coaching session Answer any questions you may have about your journey Determine your best next steps Help you find inclusive and reputable family-building partners Use the Calendly module below to schedule a coaching call
- [Connect With A Mentor](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-mentors/lessons/connect-with-mentor/) - Daniel & Spencer Surrogacy & IVF — Dallas, Texas Available for: [Video Chats, Emails, Calls, Texts] These dads have experienced two different surrogacy journeys (2020 and 2022), both using Spencer's sperm and Daniel's sister's eggs. Their advice to future dads is to do your research, specifically on the team that you choose to help you
- [Connect With An Adoption / Foster-Adopt Mentor](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-mentors/lessons/connect-with-an-adoption-foster-adopt-mentor/) - Tom and Elliott Private Infant Adoption — New Jersey Available for: [Emails, Calls, Texts] These dads have experienced two different open adoption journeys and are now the proud dads to two daughters. Theirs is a transracial family and they are in contact with the bio moms in addition to the extended family of our oldest
- [GWK Academy's Vetted Adoption & Foster Family-Building Partners](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-foster-family-building-partners/lessons/gwk-academys-vetted-adoption-foster-family-building-partners/) - Below is a small but growing list of GWK Academy’s most highly recommended and fully-vetted adoption and foster agencies, as well as the geographic regions in which their waiting families must reside. To the extent one or more of these agencies serves your home area, we strongly encourage you to contact them. (Of course, you
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- [2. Surrogacy & IVF Timeline](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/1-surrogacy-ivf-timeline/) - How long does a surrogacy journey take? If you begin your surrogacy journey today and don't encounter any major hurdles, it will take around 2 years +/- to complete. However, everyone’s journey is unique, and many variables affect your overall timeline. Click on the PDF below to see the major steps involved in your journey.
- [1. Adoption & Foster Care eBooks](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/1-adoption-foster-care-ebooks/) - Read our comprehensive adoption / foster-adopt eBooks Please take time to read our eBooks, Overview of Adoption for Gay Men and Overview of Foster Care for Gay Men, through the download link below. GWK-Academy-Adoption-eBookDownload Foster-Care-eBookDownload
- [2. 2023 List of Best Adoption-Friendly Workplaces](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/2/) - When pursuing an adoption journey it is always helpful to know what benefits your company offers to support your journey. This 2023 list of best adoption-friendly workplaces by the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption compiles the top 100 companies based on financial reimbursement, paid leave, and the percentage of employees eligible for those benefits. 2023-List-of-Best-Adoption-Friendly-WorkplacesDownload
- [Schedule a Coaching Call](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/schedule-a-coaching-call-4/) - Fatherhood is complicated, don't go it alone! Here are some of the common topics we can discuss during your coaching session Answer any questions you may have about your journey Determine your best next steps Help you find inclusive and reputable family-building partners Use the Calendly module below to schedule a coaching call
- [3. Mentally Preparing For Your Adoption / Foster Journey](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/3-mentally-preparing-for-your-adoption-foster-journey/) - Video series on the key considerations when embarking on your journey Adopting and/or fostering is an extremely rewarding and beautiful way to build your family. But, like many large life events, it requires the correct mindset. Understanding your unique perspective of being a gay dad-to-be and the perspective of not only your child-to-be but their
- [2. Terminology You Should Know](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/2-terminology-you-should-know/) - Adoption / foster-adopt terminology you should know Adoption Terminology By now you've likely noticed the world of adoption seems to come with a language of its own! We know it's confusing, but trust us, mastering "adoption speak" early on in your journey will prove to be very helpful. So we've put together a list of
- [1. What Does It Mean to Adopt or Foster-Adopt, How Much Will It Cost, And How Long Will It Take?](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/lessons/1-adopting-foster-adopting-how-much-it-costs-how-long-it-takes/) - In this introductory video we review some of the most pressing questions about adoption and foster-adopt: your expected costs and anticipated timeline. Please note that this course was purposely designed to allow you to make your way through all of the lessons (and supplemental resources) independently and at your own pace. However, if at any
- [2. Surrogacy & IVF Overview eBook](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/2-surrogacy-ivf-overview-ebook/) - Please take time to read our eBook, An Introduction to Surrogacy for Gay Men, which you can download below. GWK-Academy-Surrogacy-eBookDownload
- [Different Path Overviews](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/find-your-path-to-fatherhood-2/lessons/different-path-overviews/) - Below you will find a collection of eBooks designed to give you a high-level overview of each of the most common paths gay men pursue to become dads. Adoption Overview eBook Adoption-Overview-eBook-2024Download Surrogacy & IVF Overview eBook GWK-Academy-Surrogacy-eBook-2024Download Foster Overview eBook GWK-Academy-Foster-eBook-2024Download
- [Meet Our Mentors](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/find-your-path-to-fatherhood-2/lessons/meet-our-mentors-2/) - As part of GWK Academy, we have a wonderful community of gay dad mentors who are excited to help the next generation of dads. Hear from 3 families in this video as they share the one thing they want future dads to know about their chosen path to fatherhood - whether that be surrogacy, adoption
- [Next Steps](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/find-your-path-to-fatherhood-2/lessons/next-steps/) - Congrats on taking the first step towards achieving your dream of fatherhood, here's our suggested advice for your next step(s): Schedule a coaching call: If you have any questions, feeling overwhelmed, or need help deciding what to do next, schedule a complimentary coaching call with Brian. Check out our full-length courses: This Find Your Path
- [Get Started With GWK Academy](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/get-started-with-gwk-academy/)
- [1. Watch Welcome Video](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/1-watch-welcome-video/) - Welcome to the GWK Academy Surrogacy Guide! We are so excited that you are ready to take the first steps toward fatherhood. If you have not already spoken to Brian about your journey, we encourage you to schedule a time via the Calendly form below to discuss how we can best support you during your journey.
- [4. Read Surrogacy Overview eBook](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/4-read-surrogacy-overview-ebook/) - Please take time to read our eBook, An Introduction to Surrogacy for Gay Men, which you can download below. Download Surrogacy eBook
- [5. Surrogacy & IVF Timeline](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/5-surrogacy-ivf-timeline/) - How long does a surrogacy journey take? If you begin your surrogacy journey today and don't encounter any major hurdles, it will take around 2 years +/- to complete. However, everyone’s journey is unique and there are many variables that affect your overall timeline. Elements of your surrogacy journey that may impact your timeline: Egg
- [17. Legal Introduction](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/17-legal-introduction/)
- [8. All About Egg Donors & Surrogates](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/8-all-about-egg-donors-surrogates/)
- [1. Meet our Surrogacy Law Experts](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/1-meet-our-surrogacy-law-experts-3/) - Introducing the Fertility Law Group at Warshaw Burstein Have legal questions? Contact Eric Wrubel, EWrubel@wbny.com, or Alexis Cirel, ACirel@wbny.com. Tell them GWK Academy sent you! *DISCLAIMER* The information provided in these videos does not, and is not intended to, constitute legal advice; instead, all information, content, and materials available on this site are for general
- [2. The IVF Clinic](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/2-the-ivf-clinic-3/) - A review of the legal forms received from the clinic Have legal questions? Contact Eric Wrubel, EWrubel@wbny.com, or Alexis Cirel, ACirel@wbny.com. Tell them GWK Academy sent you!
- [1. Welcome to the Surrogacy Insurance Course](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/1-welcome-to-the-surrogacy-insurance-course-2/) - Introducing the Fertility Law Group at Warshaw Burstein. Have legal questions? Contact Eric Wrubel, EWrubel@wbny.com, or Alexis Cirel, ACirel@wbny.com. Tell them GWK Academy sent you! *DISCLAIMER* The information provided in these videos does not, and is not intended to, constitute legal advice; instead, all information, content, and materials available on this site are for general
- [9. Fostering Older Youth Video](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/9-fostering-older-youth-video/) - Watch this pre-recorded webinar on fostering older youth
- [11. Intercountry Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/11-intercountry-adoption/) - A 45-minute webinar covering adopting internationally from the US
- [2. The IVF Clinic](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/2-the-ivf-clinic-2/) - A review of the legal forms received from the clinic Have legal questions? Contact Eric Wrubel, EWrubel@wbny.com, or Alexis Cirel, ACirel@wbny.com. Tell them GWK Academy sent you!
- [2. List of Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/2-list-of-adoption/) - Below is a list of GWK Academy’s highly recommended and fully-vetted adoption and foster agencies. GWK has a history with most of these, and we cannot emphasize strongly enough the necessity that gay and queer men work with inclusive agencies that value LGBTQ+ family-building. Those listed with an asterisk are “all option” agencies, meaning the
- [Connect With A Gay Dad Mentor](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/connect-with-a-gay-dad-mentor/) - Daniel & Spencer Surrogacy & IVF — Dallas, Texas Available for: [Video Chats, Emails, Calls, Texts] These dads have experienced two different surrogacy journeys (2020 and 2022), both using Spencer's sperm and Daniel's sister's eggs. Their advice to future dads is to do your research, specifically on the team that you choose to help you
- [Connect With An Adoption / Foster-Adopt Mentor](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/connect-with-an-adoption-foster-adopt-mentor-2/)
- [Global Locations Where Surrogacy is Legal and Accessible for Gay Dads-to-Be](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/global-locations-where-surrogacy-is-legal-and-accessible-for-gay-dads-to-be/) - At GWK Academy, our primary expertise lies in U.S.-based surrogacy journeys but we recognize that there are other options available for our community around the world. Below is a high-level overview of some countries where surrogacy is relatively common and legal for future dads. Before considering any of these international options, we strongly recommend consulting
- [Schedule a Coaching Call](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/schedule-a-coaching-call/) - Fatherhood is complicated, don't go it alone! Here are some of the common topics we can discuss during your coaching session Discuss which path to parenthood is best for you Answer any questions you may have about your journey Determine your best next steps Help you find inclusive and reputable family-building partners Use the Calendly
- [Adopting Kids with Special Needs](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/adopting-kids-with-special-needs/)
- [Adopting LGBTQ+ Kids](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/adopting-lgbtq-kids/)
- [Volunteer Opportunities](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/volunteer-opportunities/)
- [Adopting Transracially](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/adopting-transracially/)
- [Adopting Older Kids](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/adopting-older-kids/)
- [Schedule a Coaching Call](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/schedule-a-coaching-call-2/) - Fatherhood is complicated, don't go it alone! Here are some of the common topics we can discuss during your coaching session Discuss which path to parenthood is best for you Answer any questions you may have about your journey Determine your best next steps Help you find inclusive and reputable family-building partners Use the Calendly
- [9. Surrogacy After Roe v. Wade](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/9-surrogacy-after-roe-v-wade-3/) - The impact of Roe v. Wade on your surrogacy journey. Have legal questions? Contact Eric Wrubel, EWrubel@wbny.com, or Alexis Cirel, ACirel@wbny.com. Tell them GWK Academy sent you!
- [8. Additional Legal Considerations](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/8-additional-legal-considerations-3/) - Your Will and an Embryo Disposition Agreement Have legal questions? Contact Eric Wrubel, EWrubel@wbny.com, or Alexis Cirel, ACirel@wbny.com. Tell them GWK Academy sent you!
- [6. Surrogacy Costs](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/6-surrogacy-costs-3/) - A breakdown of what makes up the total costs of a surrogacy journey Have legal questions? Contact Eric Wrubel, EWrubel@wbny.com, or Alexis Cirel, ACirel@wbny.com. Tell them GWK Academy sent you!
- [7. Establishing Your Legal Parental Rights](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/7-establishing-your-legal-parental-rights-3/) - Ensuring your legal status as the parent(s) of your child Have legal questions? Contact Eric Wrubel, EWrubel@wbny.com, or Alexis Cirel, ACirel@wbny.com. Tell them GWK Academy sent you!
- [4. Matching with a Surrogate](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/4-matching-with-a-surrogate-3/) - Legal considerations for matching with your surrogate Have legal questions? Contact Eric Wrubel, EWrubel@wbny.com, or Alexis Cirel, ACirel@wbny.com. Tell them GWK Academy sent you!
- [5. Surrogacy Agreement](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/5-surrogacy-agreement-3/) - The various legal requirements of your Surrogacy Agreement Have legal questions? Contact Eric Wrubel, EWrubel@wbny.com, or Alexis Cirel, ACirel@wbny.com. Tell them GWK Academy sent you!
- [3. Egg Donor Agreements](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/3-egg-donor-agreements-3/) - The various legal requirements of your Egg Donor Agreement Have legal questions? Contact Eric Wrubel, EWrubel@wbny.com, or Alexis Cirel, ACirel@wbny.com. Tell them GWK Academy sent you!
- [1. Meet our Surrogacy Law Experts](https://gwkacademy.org/lessons/1-meet-our-surrogacy-law-experts-2/) - Introducing the Fertility Law Group at Warshaw Burstein

## Courses

- [Surrogacy & IVF Course](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-course/)
- [Trans Fertility Options](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/trans-fertility-options/)
- [Agency Domestic Infant Adoption​](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/agency-domestic-infant-adoption/)
- [Interracial Adoption](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/interracial-adoption/)
- [HelpUsAdopt.org Adoption Grants](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/helpusadopt-org-adoption-grants/)
- [Biological Family Building for Lesbians and Queer Women](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/biological-family-building-for-lesbians-and-queer-women/)
- [Adoption from Foster Care Course](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-from-foster-care-course/)
- [Surrogacy & IVF Family-Building Partners](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-ivf-family-building-partners/)
- [Fostering Older Youth](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/fostering-older-youth/)
- [International Adoption Course](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/international-adoption-course/)
- [Independent Adoption Course](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/independent-adoption-course/)
- [Adoption & Foster-Adopt Course](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-and-foster-adopt/)
- [Adoption & Foster-Adopt Mentors](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-mentors/)
- [Surrogacy Mentors](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/surrogacy-mentors/)
- [Find Your Path to Fatherhood](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/find-your-path-to-fatherhood-2/)
- [Coaching](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/coaching/) - Fatherhood is complicated, don't go it alone! Here are some of the common topics we can discuss during your coaching session Discuss which path to parenthood is best for you Answer any questions you may have about your journey Determine your best next steps Help you find inclusive and reputable family-building partners Use the Calendly
- [Adoption & Foster Family-Building Partners](https://gwkacademy.org/courses/adoption-foster-family-building-partners/)

## Files

- [Paths to Fatherhood eBook](https://gwkacademy.org/mp-files/paths-to-fatherhood-ebook.pdf/)

## Events

- [Roadshow Dallas](https://gwkacademy.org/event/roadshow-dallas/)
- [Spring Break 2027](https://gwkacademy.org/event/spring-break-2027/)
- [Big Apple Takeover](https://gwkacademy.org/event/big-apple-takeover/)

## Workshops

- [Fertility Pathways for LGBTQ+ Parents: Medical Options Explained](https://gwkacademy.org/workshop/fertility-pathways-for-lgbtq-parents-medical-options-explained/)
- [GWK Academy is the FREE Tool You Need to Become a Dad](https://gwkacademy.org/workshop/gwk-academy-is-the-free-tool-you-need-to-become-a-dad/)

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